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Pink Eiga - 18 May, 2024 - 01:02PM

Agree with Paula99 and EO. It really depends on the relationship a person has with their IE. I probably wouldn’t have the desire to spend any additional time with someone I was simply meeting for sex. For a very well established IE however - where both of us genuinely liked each other as people, as true friend and lover - the snoring, toilet and eating habits would come part and parcel of accepting the person for who they are. For those who cannot afford to spend the night, full 8-10h Dayuse stints might go towards simulating that effect. If you don’t kill each other by then, meet after meet, it might indicate you have something good going. Or maybe that both of you are just un poco loco…..🤪

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ExoticOrchid - 18 May, 2024 - 09:02AM

P99 - 01:39PM

Exactly right.
Depends on the kind of IE relationship you have.

For the majority here, it is only the physical intimacy (sex) they have in common PLUS the fact that they don't have the opportunity to get away for longer than a few hours.

For those who are able to, it is more than just sex ... it is also about enjoying each other's company as two people who genuinely *like* each other and there is friendship.

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Eliza Boo - 16 May, 2024 - 02:01PM

Another one here who can't see the appeal of transitioning an affair to the domestic world of snoring together all night and sharing a bathroom in the morning. Domesticity kills desire, that's why most people are on here. Once you introduce that type of 'intimacy' it's surely the end or eroticism? And after all the years of kids in the bed and knees in my back never getting to have a bath or go to the loo alone, I'd rather a bed, bath and t.v remote to myself! 😂

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ExoticOrchid - 12 May, 2024 - 01:50PM

My personal view is that actually sleeping together is more intimate than having sex.

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Paula99 - 12 May, 2024 - 01:39PM

You need a deep connection to stay the night with your IE .. you have to really know each other and be totally comfortable … I spent a few nights with my IE but it was more about spending the time talking/ drinking/eating/watching TV and of course the sex …you have to be-able to have silences and not be concerned and sleep close together …my IE slept on his own every night … whereas I didn’t and he would be a rucksack on my back 😂…plus he twitches and I talk in my sleep…but if I tried to move he would pull me closer 😁…he would get a good nights sleep and I would be like an 🦉..
If you can’t do all of this then it’s easier to spend a couple of hours just having sex 🤪

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Beckysharp - 10 May, 2024 - 03:06PM

I may be unusual but I’ve never once wanted to spend the night with an affair. I don’t see the appeal at all!

rarity23 - 10 May, 2024 - 02:08PM

Personally I wouldn't want anyone else knowing what I was doing, friend or not !!

Only you know what you can get away with at home....... we'd all like to spend the night with an IE, but in reality i wouldn't chance it

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Paula99 - 08 May, 2024 - 04:57PM

Sophistikat….

Not really sure the best idea is to use your gf as a cover ….you need to have an extremely strong relationship….what happens if you fall out in the future …do you trust her to not reveal your skeletons…these type of affairs can ruin friendships…there is a post on here about a lady that lost her friend because she knew it was happening and her friends husband discovered the affair and asked her about it …you can look this up on another thread ….this is the reality of it ..

The best person to tell is the one inside your head 🧐

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Sir_Duke - 08 May, 2024 - 02:56PM

I did this a very long time ago and used the excuse "I have had to stay away" a couple of times and it always works. I work for myself and I can book hotels on the account and make plans. Leaving early and arriving back late gives for a good break. Only once did this stretch into a four-day trip.

Sophistikat - 08 May, 2024 - 02:21PM

Say your staying over with a girlfriend