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R Deckard - 19 May, 2024 - 07:52PM

It is a needle in a haystack. A lady who - hypothetically - messaged every single male user who has logged in the last week, would get a maximum theoretical response rate of 33%. For guys, it would be around 10-15%.
That's the theoretical maximum.
In my last month, of my conversations that went past promising messaging, pw exchange, migration to Telegram, more chat, discussion of time for 1st date, half have vanished before actually meeting. Poof.
Still, keep the faith. And prepare Plan B!

Secret Mission 2024 - 19 May, 2024 - 01:10PM

Delicious Chaos

I think we both need to move locations 😉.

Delicious Chaos - 19 May, 2024 - 12:09PM

Enigma completely agree with you.
I seem to have encountered a lot on here recently who promise the world but when it comes to it, can’t even find the time to meet up properly to embark on the affair. If your life really is that busy you shouldn’t be on here!!

I really don’t understand, men pay the money but can’t deliver. Answers on a postcard please…..

Enigma.. - 19 May, 2024 - 07:29AM

@Peaches1

I’ve noticed a big difference in the site since coming back on in 2022 and unfortunately it’s not for the better.
To many think they are entitled, have large egos and the wrong sort of attitudes.
I’ve noticed that there are a lot more time wasters on the site too.
Males/females who have no intentions of meeting up or are to busy with “real life” to meet up 🙄.
Also double dipping (messaging multiple females/males at the same time) and multiple accounts seem to be the “in thing” these days.
So why join the site if all you are going to do is fannie about the site or won’t or can’t meet up!?! 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️
You’re just going to p1ss people off and get ghosted or blocked.
The biggest issues I’m having are lack of availability and conflicting schedules.
That and the lack of new members in the areas I’m interested in.
But hey! At least there is always Flirt Forum for entertainment lol 😂 🍿🥤

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Liamjs - 19 May, 2024 - 06:38AM

Have just joined myself aged 30 seems 99% of people on here are over 45 and not interested.

Jule_71 - 18 May, 2024 - 11:04PM

Don’t know about you but, niche or not, I was on this site about 5, 6 years ago with more success. I was, what, 46 then, now I’m 53. Apart from that age difference, I can’t see how I’ve changed that much, but so far a meaningful exchange on here this time has being like getting blood out of a stone.

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1671994 - 18 May, 2024 - 06:22PM

I get that as a man it must be hard to find someone but I am not picky so say hi haha x

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Peaches1 - 17 May, 2024 - 08:42PM

I was on here a few years ago and it was soo much better. Met lots of willing people for a drink. I dont know what it is but people dont seem to follow a
meet through these days. I'm not sure since post covid lots of people are working from home and dont have the same opportunities to leave the house or have just got into that rut of chatting. Please tell me I'm wrong!

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Secret Mission 2024 - 17 May, 2024 - 08:18PM

Despite encouraging messages from Enigma and Paula99 about my profile.......still no luck whatsoever 😥.

Newlife12 - 17 May, 2024 - 04:10PM

Hi how can I get noticed on hear really looking for someone but can’t seem to get reply s
So looking for affair and class my self as good looking guy
Paul x

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