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Clickable Connection - 16 Nov, 2024 - 08:01PM

@laugar164 - agreed , if you're finding it difficult already, perhaps this is not for you ?

You've got do your thinking and make your pease with this BEFORE searching for a IE partner.

@Paula99 - agreed , in terms of logistics, you do get used hiding your indiscretions. Get used to making excuses why you're not at home. And finally you get used to leading that double life.

Like all things in life , the more you do it, the better you get at it

Paula99 - 16 Nov, 2024 - 07:00AM

It is much easier once you have taken a the giant leap into having an affair …you become accustomed to ‘hiding in plain sight ‘…your home life becomes more bearable and you relax a little.. ..the most difficult part is taking the step
Then you hit the realms of ‘reality’ and the need to be emotionally mature …plus being able to compartmentalise your ‘double life ‘…it’s not possible for some and you are entitled to your ‘wobble ‘ so the answer is yes and no ..😁

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Paula99 - 15 Nov, 2024 - 09:13PM

Yes and No …the messaging police didn’t print my previous answer even though it was civilised 🧐….based on some of the shit in here…

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Willworkforwine - 15 Nov, 2024 - 04:17PM

I found that, yes, it got easier. The distance between not having cheated and having cheated felt vast. Taking that step was difficult, but worthwhile (for me). My second affair was easier. I suspect that it will vary by individual, though.

MagicMouse321 - 15 Nov, 2024 - 02:21PM

Depends if you get caught 😂

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laugar164 - 15 Nov, 2024 - 12:09PM

If you're asking these type of questions then you're not ready

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Mustangguy - 15 Nov, 2024 - 12:06PM

If you find cheating difficult then you shouldn't really be doing it surely?

It's not like someone is forcing you to.

PleasuredToPerfection - 14 Nov, 2024 - 10:37PM

Hey! I'm new to this site and moderately new to cheating, but yes it does get easier as you'll find what you're really looking for, be it physical intimacy or something more mental.

When you do you'll find that really it's something you need at your core!

Swettenham59 - 14 Nov, 2024 - 04:18PM

I think it does

Richard5484 - 14 Nov, 2024 - 03:51PM

The easy answer is no, but it’s something that you have to manage and that’s why I’m on this site as I don’t want any strings attached but do want to have the intimacy and diplomacy of a good woman x