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MagicMouse321 - 16 Dec, 2024 - 04:57PM

Give 1 x IE = 100% attention

Else it becomes diminishing returns 2 x IE = 50% attention, 4 x IE = 25% attention.

And you’re IE will notice if you’re giving it 25%!

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Crystal Ball - 16 Dec, 2024 - 02:28PM

Just one IE is all I can handle. I don't have the time, money, or interest to entertain more than one IE. I'll give as close to 100% to my IE once I find them.
And in the past, I've only dated one at a time.

Enigma.. - 16 Dec, 2024 - 06:50AM

I know a former female member who was active on the site until earlier this year.
She said to me once…
Due to a lot of males on the site having limited availability the answer might be, in order to get a decent amount of satisfaction, multiple lovers/IE’s 🤷🏼‍♀️.
I thought she was joking 😆😝.

She wasn’t 😝😉.

She still has two lovers to this day 😉.

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blueeyed_man - 15 Dec, 2024 - 03:54PM

one would be a great start!

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Justme4uEssex - 13 Dec, 2024 - 09:30PM

For some yes for others no, just be clear on your expectations and if you don't agree then don't go there simple

ABronteSister - 13 Dec, 2024 - 07:20PM

@slimshyguy
I’ve had a quick look at your profile and I’m not sure the ‘Where’s Wally’ profile photo helps build an image of who you are. Is that a ‘look alike’ or a suggestion on your intentions!? You might also want to fill in all the sections of the profile including what you are looking for. You also mention how shy you are several times. There is a balance of being honest and coming across as insecure. Hope that helps x

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Persephone80 - 13 Dec, 2024 - 01:32PM

I find it hard to fit in one IE let alone more than one …

However let’s face it we’re all cheats and liars on here so not sure you can trust anyone….. 😈

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1725148 - 13 Dec, 2024 - 12:34PM

MLE

Ever read a question and just answered it?

Also, you forgot to mention the week you were shagging four different women from four corners of the globe.👍

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marklondonengland - 13 Dec, 2024 - 12:19PM

This is actually four different questions bundled together, but one the main point, managing more than one IE at a time is surely difficult for most people (unless you are single and using this site) because you need to justify time away from home and doing whatever you would normally be doing. That's hard enough with one IE, let alone many at the same time. What is more realistic is that you see one IE, but keep a toe in the water here until you decide that it's time to stop using IE or your IE is so perfect that you want to keep it going for the long-term.

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Three Little Words - 13 Dec, 2024 - 10:19AM

@slimshyguy

Be patient (above all else, this is a long game), be respectful, write specific opening messages to people you actually match with in terms of their needs.

95% of the time, you’ll write really nice opening messages to women with nice profiles and get no reply. Get used to this, don’t let it get you down (because if they’re not going to reply to a polite message, what kind of a woman are they?)

It’s a long game, but the rewards are there.

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