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takidemir - 19 Jan, 2024 - 01:00PM

go on and have maximum pleasure from life...but dont coincidence them...

Antinomy51 - 19 Jan, 2024 - 11:45AM

I'm still considering whether to fully sign up here. I've been reading the forum discussions to see the lay of the land, but this issue seems like a mine field. I suspect, as with everthing else I've read here there's no simple answer. I find these duscussions fascinating, Can I just ask, if you've been on this site for a long time, does it reinforce, or destroy your faith in people?

Paula99 - 19 Jan, 2024 - 11:25AM

Enigma…

Well said ..👍

I am a great believer in live and let live …you can chat to whoever you want but for those that think they can do ‘multiple chats’ at the same time as you and think that we don’t know ….think again

You know who you are 😔

You know who you are !!!

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Suffolkrogue - 19 Jan, 2024 - 10:25AM

@enigma
Think I prefer the expression "nosh it Sherlock"!
Sherlock being my middle name.
Anyway, you make some great points! Well said!

sean1471 - 19 Jan, 2024 - 10:25AM

It depends on what you want, if you want to be exclusive , do so , if not be honest .

leggysheila - 19 Jan, 2024 - 08:37AM

Now it doesn't bother me if I see him still on line x lets face I'm on line as well XXX

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1326897 - 19 Jan, 2024 - 12:14AM

Wonder if she still has 2 IEs 4 years on

boav91 - 18 Jan, 2024 - 11:01PM

I think the reality on here it is bloody hard to meet the right person. You have no choice but to chat to a few people at the start but when it then begin to become clear you have a connection and if you meet and it works then you become exclusive.

Until that point the reality is you dont know if things will work but you have to be honest and upfront. IMO My current IE and I both met after our first dates with others did not work out. That is the reality of it. We both were cordial and chatting but had progressed further with others.

For both of us that first one did not work out roughly at the same time and we then clicked and decided to give it a go and were both upfront about it. Some will like that honesty and others not but until you find the right person this can be a crazy maze to navigate.

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Enigma.. - 18 Jan, 2024 - 08:07PM

@TheBoredHousewife

My fav expression springs to mind “No sh1t Sherlock” lol.

So obvious, tedious and 🥱💤.

TheBoredHousewife - 18 Jan, 2024 - 07:20PM

Enigma.. - 18 Jan, 2024 - 06:23PM

💯

And it will actually be obvious. Even if it’s undeclared 😊