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Did anybody else...

Did anybody else join IE because their partner cheated on them first? Originally I was bitter and mad, and wanted to get some sort of secret revenge. But now I kind of get it, the whole affair thing. I almost feel cheated that I had stayed faithful for 17 years, oh well, they do say that life begins in your 40's 😝

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Noir Ce Soir - 26 Aug, 2024 - 09:11PM

I pop onto this forum from time to time and I'm always amazed how quickly what should be the topic of conversation descends into weak jokes and cheap innuendo. It's a shame because some people really need to talk about this and get true support from their fellow adulterers. This is not a path one treads lightly and it would be good to share the burden and guilt in a serious forum occasionally. Sadly that doesn't look like it will ever happen.


Elusive Traveller - 26 Aug, 2024 - 02:21PM

I did it first, tbh I find this helps keep our marriage on the right path. If I didn't then I would have left years ago. I love my wife, but sadly we are two different people who have nothing in common other than our children. I would never leave her, so I like to chat with other women who help fill the void and the occasional sex is a bonus. I'm more interested in the relationship side x


Exciteme234 - 26 Aug, 2024 - 01:55PM

Don’t overthink why, just enjoy it


Paula99 - 26 Aug, 2024 - 11:54AM

There is an old saying …He who takes revenge will dig 2 graves…
Having an affair just because your partner has had one isn’t going to solve anything …it just makes you bitter…

I am sure there are many stories that can be relayed on here😂🤣😂🤣



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Superman100136 - 26 Aug, 2024 - 10:20AM

100% true. Sad really isn’t it !


Naughty in NW - 29 Oct, 2023 - 06:56PM

Kabaddia

Maybe work a bit more on your spelling and grammar. Just speaking for myself, but a poor grasp of English is a massive turn off for me.

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Kabaddia - 28 Oct, 2023 - 06:31PM

I'm here to give the ladys gud timenand fun age doesn't mean nothing for me married or not I dont mind


Ela Doove - 28 Oct, 2023 - 04:09PM

I'm on here because my relationship has gone down hill since my husband got convicted of being a child sex offender. He is now in jail. I have always been open but he refused to let me be me. So I went down a dark rabbit hole of depression to try and please him but it wasn't making me happy. Now I am alone and free to do what I want to do and to be who I want to be.

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Naughty in NW - 28 Oct, 2023 - 03:12PM

Cheesypuff

That's chuffing marvellous my dear. Sounds a bit messy though.

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Cheesypuff - 27 Oct, 2023 - 12:39PM

Naughty in NW - 25 Oct, 2023 - 07:12PM

I'm very selective about which Chuffs I blow my Cheesy Beans up I'll have you know.

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