Did anybody else...
Did anybody else join IE because their partner cheated on them first? Originally I was bitter and mad, and wanted to get some sort of secret revenge. But now I kind of get it, the whole affair thing. I almost feel cheated that I had stayed faithful for 17 years, oh well, they do say that life begins in your 40's 😝
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Kat42565 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 04:23PM
Yes my husband has cheated on me a few times and the last one he did the woman actually contacted me through Facebook saying that he didn't know he was married and that he had said he is unhappy in the relationship so what else should I do but come on a site and find someone else
1575033 - 16 Oct, 2023 - 11:34AM
No, joined years ago, returning now, simply a good but serious sexless marriage.
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1629647 - 16 Oct, 2023 - 11:00AM
Nope...think my husband is still faithful to this day, which does make me feel a bit bad sometimes. But I know what I am doing and it's my choice to be here x
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1400267 - 30 Aug, 2020 - 10:28AM
He didn't exactly cheat first, but I felt as if he did... my husband loves watching porn and never comes to me for sex. He rejected me every time... My marriage became sexless. So I met another guy without telling him...
Afew months later my husband told me that he'd spent a hell amount of mony to have sex with someone (for only 15 minutes he said!) and he felt bad about it!
If I didn't cheat first I'd have been crushed!
MatureWorcsBBW - 01 Aug, 2020 - 11:39PM
Yes.
What's good for the goose....
I don't feel guilt or shame just elation.
Life is good.
blodynpert - 01 Aug, 2020 - 11:10PM
I came on here to find my husband. Found him and then stayed on!
pkash78 - 23 Jun, 2020 - 04:13PM
My wife cheated on me 3 years ago .. but I haven’t been here for revenge.. we went for a period of counselling. But then everything broke doen again.. because of indifference mainly. .. she became cold.. I became indifferent .. life is busy.. and loads of other things just drifted us apart.. then I realised .. that may be monogamy isn’t the solution.. and we only do it to satisfy facade of society / family / finance under the institution of marriage.. and finally after sometime, I stumbled on IE.. which is great to find a community who understands..
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