Did anybody else...
Did anybody else join IE because their partner cheated on them first? Originally I was bitter and mad, and wanted to get some sort of secret revenge. But now I kind of get it, the whole affair thing. I almost feel cheated that I had stayed faithful for 17 years, oh well, they do say that life begins in your 40's 😝
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gemini2310 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 08:31PM
No I didn't join because of that myself and hubby live together as friends and will stay together we would never wish to hurt our daughter also I would never wish to hurt him it's my secret being on here but one needs affection with total discretion without anyone getting hurt or to involved
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1392343 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 07:29PM
No. But I wish I did, it would make things a lot easier!
1117169 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 07:07PM
It has been said that men should never marry but have a housekeeper and a girlfriend/s
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Chezley - 12 Jun, 2020 - 06:48PM
I was already using dating agencies when I met her. I dropped the others and romanced with wifey. There was the occasional dalliance with old flames. There wasn't time in the baby years. But picked up cheating again 15 years or so ago. Gets to be swings and roundabouts as lovers come and go.
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1374756 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 06:36PM
I did.....
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1350989 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 03:41PM
I can’t really say I’m cheating as I’m not married however still live together but as friends, I just don’t want to go without having the intermacy and the butterflies, just not with him anymore
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Mews0001 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 03:39PM
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I've told my wife the exact same thing. Maybe we should introduce them to each other and we can have as much fun with each other with impunity! Haha
You are bang on about this site being beneficial. My problem is that I've yet to find a woman to be beneficial with! :-(
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Mews0001 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 02:09PM
I did the same with my husband. I told him that when he works away I don't care if he has sex with another woman. I told him I don't want him waking up one day and feeling like he has missed out as I'm only the second woman he has had sex with - as long it doesn't impact our marriage financially and he practices safe sex.
He says I keep him drained enough without needing to look elsewhere 🙈
Of course he doesn't know that I already have strayed but I think that seeing how much release I get from here I feel it allows insight into how beneficial it can be.
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MatureWorcsBBW - 12 Jun, 2020 - 03:16PM
Personally speaking, if I was having an affair within the marriage, I would never ever, ever, ever confess it to my husband, knowing that my confession could be used against me in the divorce courts.
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