Expectations?
Hi, Has anyone else's expectations changed during lockdown? I previously looked for someone tall, dark and handsome yet the man I have been speaking to since April made me realise looks aren't everything!
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Simple _Simon - 27 Jun, 2020 - 09:22PM
I agree there has to be an element of wanting to see who you are talking to but on the other hand i feel you need to gain the trust of someone as well before sharing photos. I am new here but i'm very aware there are some profiles that might be called suspect at the very least
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1332870 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 09:05PM
Oops !
I ask for pics and share pics early on. Yes personality is part of it, but unless you're looking for a penpal, you need an attraction to who you're talking to.
Looks are not the whole story as that person could be drop dead gorgeous but if there's no spark, there's no point.
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1367807 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 08:36PM
@Nearwildheaven I ask for pics immediately... Not because looks are the most important thing, just because when I first joined I had a nice conversation with a man who had no pics, a short time later he added one and I immediately recognised that he was my husband's friend! Since then I've not gotten past pleasantries without seeing a picture.
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1266637 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 08:29PM
My personal favourite, the profiles that say chemistry personality more important than looks , then ask for your pw in first message , keeps entertainment alive on here a good laugh
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1382700 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 08:13PM
Haven’t chatted to a woman yet who hasn’t quickly asked for pics. Tells it’s own story really
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1266637 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 07:36PM
Just remember a mullet and shoulder pads give the 80s pics away tea. Coffee me , I never thought I’d see 80s pants on here though , but we’re never too old for surprises
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tea_coffee_me_ - 27 Jun, 2020 - 07:20PM
"Butterfly600 -
As everyone knows all the pics posted on here are of the actual person taken this week 😁. "
This week!! oh my I need an update, I felt the last century was ok!!
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tea_coffee_me_ - 27 Jun, 2020 - 06:11PM
"3rdAge -
tea_coffee_me_ ; you raise a good point but I really do not get the impression everyone is gagging for it as you put it -"
I did not say that, I was quoting "Chezley" :-)
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tea_coffee_me_ - 27 Jun, 2020 - 06:04PM
"Autumnal500 -
And tea coffee me , iv read a lot of your posts lots of sensible common sense 👍. Among some fluffy comments , big thumbs up"
- Ohhh thank you SO much :-D
Welcome, if it helps with peoples learning curves, and reduces anyone being hurt ... :-)
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Simple _Simon - 27 Jun, 2020 - 05:44PM
Looks are important as have to have a physical attraction but whats inside seals the deal to make intimacy go from ok to wow !!
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