Help - my IE is shy!
Finally met my IE after months of online messaging - we have an electric connection and I find him crazy attractive - but I found he is very shy in person…how do I bring him out of his shell?
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xxmalxx - 12 Jul, 2020 - 10:11AM
Although you have been chatting online it is a big step meeting in person. Perhaps he can't believe it has actually happened or maybe he is shy out in public.Once you meet a few more times and he is completely comfortable with you I'm sure he will come out of his shell. All the best
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1386651 - 10 Jul, 2020 - 07:33AM
Be patient. Still waters run deep. Good luck!
1373422 - 09 Jul, 2020 - 09:24PM
Jump on him 😂
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ClassyLady77 - 09 Jul, 2020 - 09:09AM
Some people are shy.
Always good to meet people. Meet for a drink 🥃 as good way to break the ice.. but don’t get too drunk...
That’s the part I like the most about looking for an affair.. plus I don’t do online.. soo I’m not popular atm 😜
I know exactly what I want and not settling for second best.., been there done that... 🤷🏼♀️
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1332870 - 08 Jul, 2020 - 09:21PM
I hate to sound harsh but talk of men just needing an ego boost, scared of going public etc....it could just be they're not into you.
It may seem like a waste of time talking then meeting and nothing comes of it, but how will you know if you don't meet.
Endless talking can build up an expectation that isn't the same when you meet. As much as you feel that spark, if he's not interested, he's just not interested
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yakusheva86 - 08 Jul, 2020 - 01:49PM
It’s hard to say why they might be shy, I can only assume that if you spoke for months that they felt comfortable being who they want to be in their own space and taking this publicly maybe made them anxious as it is not a secret anymore, someone may see, regretting even. All depends what you deem is shy, what did he say or do that you felt they way?
Chezley - 08 Jul, 2020 - 12:32PM
It's the situation that is too long to late. None of us wish to be used and disposed of. But for an ie to start and progress and to be passionate, fulfilling, the social and sexual are integral. They need to occur within a finite window of opportunity.
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1155879 - 08 Jul, 2020 - 09:18AM
I think there is shy and just a ego boost
I messaged a guy for weeks & weeks
We got on well , lots in common etc
Arranged to meet . Yes the attraction was there
Met again for a walk and chat , It was going in the right direction
Then ... He totally cooled it !
Some men just need a ego boost
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1155879 - 08 Jul, 2020 - 09:16AM
I think there is shy and just a ego boost
I messaged a guy for weeks & weeks
We got on well , lots in common etc
Arranged to meet . Yes the attraction was there
Met again for a walk and chat , It was going in the right direction
Then ... He totally cooled it !
Some men just need a ego boost
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