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Cardinal Rule

What is the top most cardinal rule in an affair? I think it's: Communication.

Transparency between partners guarantees a safe and happy affair. 

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1128466 - 22 Jul, 2020 - 04:18PM

Don’t fall in love!!!! so true that phrase ..turned me into a mindless zombie when my IE and i split as we both fell head over heals with each other and we wouldn't or couldn't leave our other halves .we decided when we split which was this year ,that we wouldn't communicate by phone only text as our feelings were to strong and we could not bear to hear the others voice ..its difficult as i well know but try try not to !!!!

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1399680 - 22 Jul, 2020 - 04:17PM

Don't confuse lust with love, and don't get caught.

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Polycarbonate - 22 Jul, 2020 - 03:11PM

OrientalAngel80

Yes. Learn to swallow..........

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1387952 - 22 Jul, 2020 - 02:40PM

Polycarbonate - 22 Jul, 2020 - 02:33PM

I just spat my brew out! 😂

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Polycarbonate - 22 Jul, 2020 - 02:33PM

Don't get to the point where you think its okay to fart.

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Imbackagain - 22 Jul, 2020 - 01:03PM

Don't get caught.

Have fun.

Talk honestly and openly to each other but know when to keep quiet about things.

Great sex too. It is an affair after all.

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1352608 - 22 Jul, 2020 - 12:14PM

Definitely communication and honesty between each other if one wants to have lots of different people make it clear to your IE partner and then he or she can decide if it is acceptable to them.
Good communication means keeping in touch regularly not excuses like "I'm just too busy to chat and say a few words" I for one do not buy that s***!!
If you are not interested just say it's not hard

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Fred basset 123 - 22 Jul, 2020 - 11:56AM

Honesty, communication and discretion. Sorry a bit greedy there with three of them, but I think they go hand in hand

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1265724 - 22 Jul, 2020 - 11:03AM

For me, my cardinal rules are:

1- Please don’t spend your affair time talking about your marriage
2- Don’t ask the other person to talk about their marriage
3- if it’s not working out don’t just disappear and go ghost... Use your words... 😊

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1368155 - 22 Jul, 2020 - 10:44AM

Honesty and communication two top ones

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