Comments (213)

1649153 - 12 Feb, 2024 - 04:00PM

I really think it’s to be clear and honest (if this is possible) maybe discuss where this could lead and what you both require from it

Delicious Chaos - 12 Feb, 2024 - 12:34PM

Enigma
Spot on and well said

1326897 - 12 Feb, 2024 - 12:07PM

Don’t get caught

Enigma.. - 12 Feb, 2024 - 09:57AM

Good communication, trust and respect.

But above all honesty.

It hasn’t happened to me but someone I know has now left the site because she found out her Ie was seeing another woman from the site.

Long story short he’s lost two women.

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FluffyClouds - 11 Feb, 2024 - 11:51PM

Chris939358 -

It's an affair if one of you are in a relationship surely?

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boav91 - 11 Feb, 2024 - 11:08PM

Agree not one rule but the following works for me

No risks
Good communication
Building proper trust

After that the rest follows

Chris939358 - 11 Feb, 2024 - 10:51PM

I'd say the number 1 rule has to be that you need to already be in a relationship. Otherwise it's not an affair

FluffyClouds - 11 Feb, 2024 - 10:01PM

It's not one rule...

Trust, availability and communication

Nottinghamlad72 - 11 Feb, 2024 - 04:48PM

Be confident and have the most amazing sex

1604221 - 11 Feb, 2024 - 11:40AM

Having managed a long term affair (3 years) , trust and being friends is the most important part. I am still friends even though we decided to stop

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