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Cardinal Rule

What is the top most cardinal rule in an affair? I think it's: Communication.

Transparency between partners guarantees a safe and happy affair. 

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Xam666 - 13 Jul, 2020 - 02:50PM

Most definitely communication & trying not to get caught by your partner

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Lillib - 13 Jul, 2020 - 02:34PM

I honestly don’t know what the rules are but I’m learning from all the comments 😊

Respect maybe

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Classycougar - 13 Jul, 2020 - 02:19PM

Communication, honesty, trust, respect....but also lust!!!!
I that’s not present what’s the point when you have so much at risk!

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1366991 - 13 Jul, 2020 - 02:04PM

Like in Ghost busters ‘ never cross the streams or all civilisation will end ‘ lol
Keep your lives separate and build a parallel temporary universe.
Also let someone know when it’s over and don’t string them along for your own entertainment.
It cuts both ways if one of you says it’s over the other must respect this and walk away- no contact or staying friends just happy memories

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1242187 - 13 Jul, 2020 - 01:41PM

As much as we get close to someone and as intense as the affairs get, you can never 100% trust your affair partner and they shouldn't really trust you. They are lying to their spouses and cheating on them... to think they won't do the same if it suits is naive.

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laugar99 - 13 Jul, 2020 - 01:29PM

communication , trust and respect is key if you don't have these then it will never work and people will get hurt people don't enter affairs lightly and need to know they can trust you as much as they trust you


ExoticOrchid - 13 Jul, 2020 - 01:14PM

Scorpio1971 - 13 Jul, 2020 - 12:05PM

Now, that did make me laugh ... though I assume you meant it seriously!!! :-))

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ExoticOrchid - 13 Jul, 2020 - 01:02PM

Liltink - 13 Jul, 2020 - 12:49PM
"the other person has a whole life out there, respect that and don't cross boundaries"

Totally ... both parties have their "real" life ... you are the added extra and if lucky, the icing on the cake.

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ExoticOrchid - 13 Jul, 2020 - 01:00PM

Nothing, but nothing guarantees a safe and happy affair!!!

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1387952 - 13 Jul, 2020 - 01:00PM

I always thought the cardinal rule of affairs is Don't Get Caught... 😁

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