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1242187 - 10 Aug, 2020 - 06:30PM

Don’t send a text meant for your girlfriend to your wife!

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wetnhorny - 10 Aug, 2020 - 04:32PM

Has to be trust

1379354 - 10 Aug, 2020 - 12:06PM

I agree, communication, honesty ard trust are most important with who you are seeing or chatting too...yes we are here too ‘cheat’ on our partners but lying to your secret person is a total waste of time and effort! be honest with what you want and open to other people’s ways and don’t judge a book by its cover..looks are not the most important thing!!

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MissHappyLady - 07 Aug, 2020 - 06:00PM

Communication is good. But I do think that trust is my main factor

1303634 - 07 Aug, 2020 - 01:53PM

Trust every time. Has to be or the risk isn’t worth taking. If there was a number two rule it would be honesty

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Goodkitty - 07 Aug, 2020 - 01:12PM

Don’t let yourself get tooinvolved . It hurts too much when it falls apart. It an IE , not for ever, unless I am mistaken.

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Tall man58 - 02 Aug, 2020 - 05:53PM

I think it’s trust lose lips sinks ships if you can’t keep a secret don’t have an affair l was see someone for about two years from here just keep it to yourself.

Th3on3 - 30 Jul, 2020 - 09:25PM

If you IE is also a friend then of course you will share problems or situations at home I wouldn’t want it to become the main focus but it’s nice to be able to offload. Sometimes as they are same sex as the partner at home. they can lend extra perspective.

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Chezley - 30 Jul, 2020 - 08:07PM

Of course some consideration of the situation of your ie will help.

However I met one unfortunate woman who had a litany of family complexities, and had put herself to the role of aligning the planets.

As an outsider, I could see the prospect of any kind of ie was doomed from the outset. I moved on.

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1361203 - 30 Jul, 2020 - 01:02PM

I think you mean without either one hogging the conversation Caravaggia ! But I take your point!