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Paula99 - 27 Dec, 2023 - 09:19PM

Mr E Mann/Hotrod1973…

It’s a good job you both know what you are doing 🙄🙄

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boav91 - 27 Dec, 2023 - 05:30PM

IE and I dont have an alibi but we build randomness into our lives and days so we may be in different places at different times but appear to be part of normal life and work. It means it does not look odd say for a day in London or an afternoon meeting in different places. It is all we can do so make the most of it.. Some things we would like to do wont work so we cannot do that, for example a weekend away. The more that you this and it fits into what would normally happen in your life e.g. I go away to conferences and stay in hotels normally, going away then become part of normal life. Does not lead to questions. The further away from what you normally would do takes place the more likely you are to slip up

Worked so far

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FluffyClouds - 27 Dec, 2023 - 05:09PM

If you don't have some sort of life outside your marriage, in other words, have a good social network, hobbies, interests (that your other half is not involved in) or a job that requires extended hours elsewhere then you're going to struggle to have an affair. Especially when your affair partner has all their ducks in a row and you don't. 🦆🦆🦆

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1638472 - 27 Dec, 2023 - 02:56PM

Find someone completely disconnected from your partner and whose path will never cross but make sure they are real

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1614937 - 27 Dec, 2023 - 01:10PM

Your friend's relationship has broken down over Christmas and you have to go and comfort/support them.

Hotrod1973 - 27 Dec, 2023 - 10:08AM

Fake illness - ate tòo much, over Christmas??

Delicious Chaos - 27 Dec, 2023 - 09:02AM

Have friends that are doing the same
Before anyone jumps down my neck, it works for me and it has done for 13 years plus 👍

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1568423 - 06 Dec, 2022 - 05:43PM

I would say trust no one, people always change, one day they are your best friend the next they are gossiping, just my experience

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Delicious Chaos - 06 Dec, 2022 - 04:52PM

Paula99
I’m sorry but I wouldn’t take advice from anyone here! I’ll stick to my friends thanks

Aceflush - 06 Dec, 2022 - 04:44PM

You definitely don't need an " alibi buddy".
All been explained in earlier posts.
Friends let you down, some would be absolutely shocked, even disgusted by clandestine behaviour..
Discretion is everything..