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1408564 - 12 Sep, 2020 - 12:15PM

To not trust in what people tell you..let them prove it

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Pogosticks87 - 12 Sep, 2020 - 12:14PM

I. E has taught me lots of little things but I think the main thing is that I'm actually a lot more confident then I think I am, and some men seem to really take to this.

When you find the right I. E it's magic, totally with the months looking! But always have to remember it's only temporary. That way you enjoy the times you do have together.

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1386366 - 12 Sep, 2020 - 11:52AM

The greatest lesson I have learnt is to realize that an IE is not a permanent thing, its an escape from real life that will eventually end.

Hence we have to be realistic, it is great to really like somebody, and have a brilliant time but don't fall head over heels.

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ExoticOrchid - 12 Sep, 2020 - 11:12AM

Lightmyfire936 - 10:51AM

There is ABSOLUTELY life after marriage!!! 👍

Lightmyfire936 - 12 Sep, 2020 - 10:51AM

I've learned that there will be life after marriage!!

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1407970 - 12 Sep, 2020 - 10:31AM

I’ve learned that I’m probably too old for this but it doesn’t stop me

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1400267 - 12 Sep, 2020 - 10:24AM

I learnt that what I want out of my affairs changes every year. Every encounters taught me something new.

Also, I learnt that I was too nice to men and noticed that they don't like it that way! I learnt to be less shy and focus more on my own happiness and having fun.

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1393321 - 12 Sep, 2020 - 10:20AM

Well, what an interesting question! Definitely one with many answers from me, not sure how many I want to share on here though. Haha!

I used to think there were no good men left, that's not true, theres plenty on IE, they're just part timers, which suits me fine!

I've also learnt that dating is fun and about about meeting playmates rather than soul mates :-)

So, I've learnt to chill.

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1408335 - 12 Sep, 2020 - 09:47AM

Apparently I am past sell by!

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Premiumbond - 12 Sep, 2020 - 08:55AM

I’ve learnt that not everyone is like me. I’m too spontaneous and a little impatient. Once I’ve chatted for a while I assume everyone wants to meet. After all that’s why I signed up ....for an Illicit Encounter
I need to be more patient

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