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gemini2310 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 07:22PM

Surely that's something the two of you should decided on I have to have contact everyday with iE but we are all different

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DorsetLass89 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 06:59PM

@Ha1234

So you revisit the discussion? I don’t see the issue.

Ha1234 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 06:45PM

@DorsetLass89

Communication is going to be random in this kind of situation.....plus conflicting demands...people may not even know how much Communication they need..... so its be difficult to discuss it beforehand

DorsetLass89 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 06:11PM

I think your title says it all.

Communication.

Ask her, discuss what you’d both like as it’s not just about one person’s needs.

Good luck and have fun :)

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Frustrated housewife - 15 Sep, 2020 - 05:51PM

I just want arrangements for the next fuck

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Polycarbonate - 15 Sep, 2020 - 04:32PM

There are some obligatory staging posts which can't be ignored. The before and after meets. The supportive, empathetic and helpful. The hot calls and the phone sex which can happen.

Otherwise it's just sociable talk, finding out about folk and their ways of life. Some nice shared intimacy and valiant gestures. Whatever keeps the party going.

At least one in depth conversation per week with a few keep in touches around it.

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1395861 - 15 Sep, 2020 - 03:50PM

I completely agree with Exotic Orchid. Whatever you start with, stick with it. I personally would like frequent communication especially if we can only meet every 3 to 4 weeks. Otherwise how can you build up any kind of rappor?

Also if you just want sex chat let it be known very early on. It's not to everyones tastes

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Southwestbbw - 15 Sep, 2020 - 03:42PM

Yes I agree set expectations and be truthful with how often you can be available. Start as you mean to go on

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Gormlessoaf - 15 Sep, 2020 - 03:13PM

It changes throughout a month. Some months its busy the next, few and far between. It depends on what's practicable. But enough has to be shared for it to be a relationship.

I'm not one for constant inane messages and I don't like to be checked up on either. So if it's too much like that, I move on.

I'd say at least 2 or three times a week for a quick message or talk. But have something worthwhile to introduce yourselves to more aspects of your character. More often I just want to hear a congenial voice.

I might pretend, elaborate or invent a scenario present or past to create a conversation. Anything to make the call worthwhile.

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Floriana - 15 Sep, 2020 - 03:05PM

@exotic Orchid you are so, so, right about this!
And it’s important to message as soon as possible after EVERY hotel meet, in my opinion.
It shows consideration and integrity!!

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