Communication
I have just started seeing a new IE - how often should I message her inbetween meets? Any advice would be appreciated
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1586130 - 04 Jan, 2024 - 12:59AM
You should message her a lot less often than she messages you. Clingy guys never last.
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1640227 - 29 Dec, 2023 - 08:43PM
OFFS
1635363 - 27 Dec, 2023 - 11:38PM
A good morning and good night let’s them know that you are thinking of them and any other snippets throughout your day
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Doricles - 27 Dec, 2023 - 10:03PM
Fluffy Clouds
I read your profile and your words echo much of what I wrote. Great minds and all that 😉 x
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FluffyClouds - 27 Dec, 2023 - 05:27PM
Doricles -
I agree there needs to be a chemistry on initial first messages plus on the first meet to create that buzz.
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Doricles - 27 Dec, 2023 - 12:34PM
The frequency and length of messages exchanged at the start of a new relationship is influenced by many factors, but in my experience, if the chemistry is there, and an immediate connection is formed, both parties will feel the buzz and they’ll crave constant contact with each other. We all know why we’re here and the prospect of a new illicit encounter (or a first one) raises expectations and drives both parties in a burgeoning relationship to find ways to communicate as often as their particular circumstances allow. It’s all part and parcel of embarking on something new and exciting: a chance for both parties to feel wanted and alive again!
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1620310 - 26 Dec, 2023 - 11:25PM
Just go with the flow…… play it by ear!
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Tinkercat - 26 Dec, 2023 - 08:14PM
I’d expect an open communication about this and an agreement between the two people; so perhaps have that chat together. Personally, I love the thrill of getting a message and checking in with my IE but I guess for me it’s because I’d prefer to be developing a relationship as a one off not with a series of different people. Communication is key for me.
Partner in Crime - 26 Dec, 2023 - 07:02PM
Even a 'good morning!' is appreciated. I know that it's not an official relationship but it's nice to know you're in their thoughts. It's something I try to do when I'm in an IE type relationship....it's just a nice thing to do.
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