Ask me out!
I have a massive crush on someone here, but I'm a bit nervous to suggest a date. Been talking for awhile now, non stop! I keep catching myself smiling every time I get a message. I can't work out why he hasn't asked me out yet! What do I do?
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JayKay120 - 01 Nov, 2020 - 11:27PM
Just ask him out. If he's nervous, taking control may just be another thing he finds attractive about you.
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musexkanter - 01 Nov, 2020 - 10:44PM
I'm straight male: It's a hardship to find a direction online. As a comparison, a live smile accompanied with a sparkling eye contact or unconscious play with your hair is a perfect cue for a man to invite a lady to a date; these never experienced online but yet you have other means. If you are a straight female, don't waste your time with that man. Especially if you've exchanged photos and interests and he's not yet stepping forward, he won't satisfy you later even if you endeavor soon. While married are filling this encounter, they're looking for fun so they're less greedy and few taste of love. That means decisions happen faster than other venues.
Trwela - 01 Nov, 2020 - 10:15PM
Don't procrastinate and ask him. He is either nervous or is not ready. In either case you need to find out.
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1205622 - 01 Nov, 2020 - 09:37PM
You definitely need to ask! Especially if you’re talking to each other. There must be some connection 😉
nasr27 - 01 Nov, 2020 - 08:33PM
Don’t over think it, life’s too short for that.
Go for it! Times ticking
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ExoticOrchid - 01 Nov, 2020 - 05:58PM
Butterfly600
Here we go ... 🙄🙄🙄
Haha 👍
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1117169 - 01 Nov, 2020 - 04:50PM
Ask him out of course. He will probably be delighted. He may not say yes of course ( Men have to face that prospect all the time) or indeed may not be able to meet you even if he wants too the way things are at the moment.
It could be that he just enjoys chatting. I don't see the point of that, particularly given what full membership for men requires.
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Perfect moments - 01 Nov, 2020 - 04:29PM
You should ask him if he is up for meeting you or if your wasting your time.
Personally I wouldn't meet anyone at this moment in time. It's just too risky, plus full lockdown again from thursday.
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