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Lovelaugh1970 - 08 Jun, 2022 - 09:17AM

I would definitely ask I mean why not, it sounds like you have a connection!

Lovelaugh1970 - 08 Jun, 2022 - 09:16AM

Just and observation and maybe its just me, but I always put a lot of thought into the messages I send, but rarely get a reply, so when one does geta reply it is easy to get overexcited!!!!

Paula99 - 30 May, 2022 - 06:30PM

EX.OD..

I agree!

😁

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ExoticOrchid - 30 May, 2022 - 06:27PM

BH764 - 05:50PM

That's exactly what I tend to do too ... some do take it well and say thank you, etc. Some reply as per below! 🙄

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TheBoredHousewife - 30 May, 2022 - 05:50PM

EO

Couple of times, I’ve seen really creative profile names that made my inner self smile. I’ve felt compelled to message and compliment them on it. One man was on the other end of the country. Thankfully he took it well, and we had a few friendly exchanges before parting ways.

Being friendly never hurts, but at the same time, just because a female does engage, doesn’t mean she is immediately has a crush on you 😉

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ExoticOrchid - 30 May, 2022 - 02:31PM

As a female here who isn't afraid to make the first move, can I just clarify something ... I like reading random profiles and when it's an interesting or witty [or both] profile, I would mention the part which caught my eye and send a message regarding that WITHOUT any thought of hitting on them.

However, the nature of this site being what it is, the majority immediately assume I am "hitting on them" and reply very pompously, pointing out that I'm outside their age range or location or whatever. The latest case in point being someone who was riding into the sunset whose profile pondered on the difference between "discreet" and "discrete" [many here don't know btw] ... I messaged my understanding of the two words ... he replied, without mentioning the subject that I had missed his location which is more than half a day away, etc, very pompously [probably puffing out his chest and patting his own back that he's irresistible to me ... err nope!].

Just because I messaged you doesn't mean I'm hitting on yo

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Epicland123 - 29 May, 2022 - 11:29PM

OK. I am asking you out now. I will meet you in your local Wetherspoons (as it is cheap)
"At age 20, we worry about what others think of us… at age 40, we don’t care what they think of us… at age 60, we discover they haven’t been thinking of us at all.

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silverfox532 - 29 May, 2022 - 11:36AM

Just tell him that if he doesn’t want to meet there’s no point in continuing

1519722 - 29 May, 2022 - 11:14AM

Faint heart never won fair lady.
Or man
In the days of equality women should always be prepared to make the first move too.

Kitten55 - 27 May, 2022 - 06:17PM

Ask him