Debate
Are married people or single people happier? Personally, I think married people are happier. Yes, I know I'm married and on IE - but I STILL think I'm happier then an unattached person might be. Aren't we here to live a little but keep things sweet at home...thoughts?
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smartypants12345 - 25 Mar, 2024 - 12:43PM
A bit of a silly question…. Personally ,I think the insane, clowns and dogs are happiest. If I could lick my own balls I would.
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boav91 - 25 Mar, 2024 - 12:11PM
So as with most things that try to be an absolute it is never one thing or the other. The reality is happiness is not defined by just being in a relationship. It is just one of the things that helps us to self actualise.
Personally I prefer to be in a relationship as I like being around people and I am here as the friend side of my relationship is great but the physical was not. With my IE she is in the same place as me in that she gets really well as a friend with her husband but there is no intimacy, We find that together now and it completes us in terms of what was missing. We are both now happy being discreet and having both,
Others dont necessarily need that connection all the time and from what I have seen enjoy not having all the domestic crap and enjoy the time limited fun that IE brings. If you asked them, they will say they are very contented it seems. it is each to their own and no two people are exactly the same. Happiness comes in many forms so it seems
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MissBrandy - 16 Mar, 2024 - 05:40PM
As someone who sleeps with a variety of people from different walks of life, different marital statuses, different genders etc. I'd like to say that this debate is pointless, there's no singular key to happiness and it looks different for everybody.
Honestly your whole post reads like someone in am unhappy marriage desperately trying to convince themselves and everybody else that they're not miserable....
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giggly hamster - 16 Mar, 2024 - 02:44PM
It's questions like this that are the written equivalent of making me want to smash my nuts between two house bricks.
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ExoticOrchid - 12 Mar, 2024 - 11:39AM
How heartwarming to know that marrieds here are such happy people ... especially you OP ... 🙄🙄🙄
1653827 - 12 Mar, 2024 - 07:55AM
Happiness….is a cigar called hamlet.
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1575033 - 11 Mar, 2024 - 08:49PM
Different kinds of happiness
leggysheila - 10 Mar, 2024 - 08:42AM
Try my marriage then let me know 😊
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Paula99 - 08 Mar, 2024 - 03:46PM
There are many factors that make married people think they are unhappy ..work/family/kids ..but it doesn’t always mean they are unhappy with each other…there are some elements/needs that are not met but it doesn’t mean we want to leave our respective partners….some of us still believe that having 2 parents in the same house provides a stable family existence..we can’t all walk around smiling
As far as single persons go some are quite ‘happy’ to have some sort of ‘life’ and go back home at the end…but sometimes being the OP can be lonely as they are on the back burner until they see their lover but are they unhappy?…
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