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1447499 - 21 Apr, 2021 - 10:18AM

As a few have mentioned before me, this seems to be dependent on a lot of factors - especially given our unique circumstances for being here but I think if you hear nothing from an IE then leave it until they contact you (no one needs a 'bunny boiler' do they, and I think I'd be a little concerned if I had to stay off line for a while to come back and find a string of 'why won't you talk to me' type messages from someone)
Maybe also consider not getting too excited too soon at the start of a 'relationship' and then ascertain how much emotional currency you want to spend as things develop?

Just hypothesising here, and my views are my own but happy to debate.....

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1449137 - 20 Apr, 2021 - 06:57PM

Its a big pond, if you dont hear back after several days they have very likely moved on which is why there is nothing wrong with chatting more than one person at a time. You will just know when the spark is there and she is really interested.

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funseeker63 - 17 Apr, 2021 - 09:48AM

Communication is essential....& as ive only just signed up for a 3 week trial😊😁😜😜....i need as many Kent/Essex girls to message me as poss!....but seriously....its just good manners & curtious to at least read & reply to any messages youve received ,even if its a "jog on,your not my type" one 😁

MatureWorcsBBW - 16 Apr, 2021 - 05:39PM

I'm not much for texting.
I'd expect several real phone calls per week.

I know we're not all the same but I want to hear a real voice not read text.

1444413 - 10 Apr, 2021 - 11:51PM

Always important it's easy to just say hello even if it's just one word

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Milkomilko - 10 Apr, 2021 - 10:34PM

Hi I’d just like someone to contact me

1437343 - 10 Apr, 2021 - 10:13PM

Communication styles vary for us all. If I don’t receive a message for a reasonable amount of time I would know he had had lost interest. Next....

Lemonface - 10 Apr, 2021 - 07:36PM

If I’m having an intimate relationship , then I care for that person. So I need to know that they are ok. Everyday they get a message or we have a conversation. Communication is very important in any relationship and has to be evenly balanced.

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Mariachi2422 - 10 Apr, 2021 - 03:22PM

I think it's important to keep in touch. Communication is key. If you're not going to maintain communication then probably best to move on.

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1446263 - 10 Apr, 2021 - 01:21PM

I think you’d get to know their daily and weekly routines so if it all goes unusually quiet then cut ‘em loose 🤷🏻‍♀️and don’t take it personal ... the reason may be nothing to do with you at all! Life happens x

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