Do you think a single like me should be on IE?
I have lived on my own for 10 years and know I'm not cut out for Living Together/Marriage at my age. I know my space and don't want to drive someone crazy. I still want to meet up with someone who is seeking connection, including exclusivity to the right person. Am I the only one like this?
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1454854 - 28 May, 2021 - 05:07PM
I'm with you on that one. I'm also single but like you, I'm not looking for a full on relationship with all the dramas and emotional nonsense that usually involves.
My old auntie used to tell me, "it's ok to have someone in your life, you just don't need to have them in your house".
Suits me, Sir.
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1091782 - 28 May, 2021 - 08:47AM
I have just amended my profile, I am winding it down with a view to leaving
Since I became single the majority of men who contact me seem to think I am some kind of call girl, and that is NOT what I expected on this site.
Disappointing because I have been off and on here for about five years but I am worth way, way more than that.
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gemini2310 - 27 May, 2021 - 11:40PM
I had an affair once with a single guy never again only a married guy from now on we can both end up losing the same things.
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Sunseeker1958 - 27 May, 2021 - 05:33PM
Why not? As long as your upfront and state if a married person fits your remit. I'd be happy to have an i. e with a single person as they may be able to join me in the winter months when I pop away for sum winter sun and they could possibly accommodate in UK, win win
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1447655 - 27 May, 2021 - 03:08PM
Having commitments and responsibilities is the same whether it is to a marriage, children, work or a business. An individual has to judge how much of themselves they can give (time, attention, self) regardless of what that reason is. In some cases a married person may be more emotionally available than a single person. It's subjective. In each individual case we all have different 'needs' - emotional, physical, whatever. It's about finding someone that can meet those needs (and if we can meet theirs too). Compatibility preceeds all societies little boxes, in my opinion.
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Maria Jones - 27 May, 2021 - 02:06PM
dating a single person when you're married and want an affair doesn't work. it's unfair on both parties and i wouldn't do it again. MJ
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1449137 - 27 May, 2021 - 01:33PM
Why not just release the album?
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Summerbelle - 27 May, 2021 - 11:28AM
You're most certainly not the only one and I could have written this myself (but didn't). Good luck with your search and I hope you find someone who matches exactly what you're looking for, whether it's on here or on a more conventional dating site.
There are pros and cons on all dating sites and you just never know where that person might be :-)
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ExoticOrchid - 27 May, 2021 - 11:01AM
April2021 - 27 May, 2021 - 10:23AM
"This has been done to death"
Hear, Hear!!!
OP ... do what suits you and your life [as long as you are happy to see them go home to their wives][total bliss and very liberating] and ignore what others say ... there's a lot of prejudice here, believe me!!!
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