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blueeyed_man - 29 Nov, 2024 - 04:38PM

Reflecting on this more, it’s the desire for some fun, some intimacy and the chance to meet someone likeminded and after similar things, without making life more complicated than it needs to be… I want that to provide warmth, tender moments, some thrills sure, but not because of the thrill of it. But each to their own and assuming they find someone after the same thing.

Clickable Connection - 29 Nov, 2024 - 04:22PM

I don't think it's the secrecy thats the thrill - I get no rush of having to lie , it's something (given the choice) I'd rather not do.

Bit yes meeting someone new , and find out more about them is most definitely one of the more enjoyable parts of this. And then if all goes well, getting to them even better, explore eachother, trying stuff out - that is where the rush and enjoyment comes from

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MrGuy83 - 29 Nov, 2024 - 04:05PM

I don't think the thrill comes from the secrecy but getting that interaction we're all looking for is thrilling enough for me. The secrecy is just inconvenient!

Paula99 - 29 Nov, 2024 - 03:02PM

If you are just ‘in it for the thrill’ then go ahead waste your money because believe me most women will see through that kinda bullshit …😕

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Webby70 - 29 Nov, 2024 - 12:28PM

I guess the forbidden fruit tastes sweeter, but my reasons are more complicated.

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DeeperThings - 29 Nov, 2024 - 11:29AM

No particular thrill in the secrecy part for me, just a sort of peace that I don’t have to lie about my marital status.

blueeyed_man - 29 Nov, 2024 - 11:05AM

I don’t think it’s a fetish, but it’s surely a thrill. Currently seeking an IE though so am hoping to confirm that’s the case. 😊

Tykster - 18 Feb, 2024 - 06:35PM

Yes it’s a normal fetish. Personally I like some depth to the affair. To get to know and share deepest secrets and fantasies that even spouses are excluded from. It’s so special and thrilling.

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1637273 - 01 Feb, 2024 - 10:59PM

It's and unexpected bonus for me. Being naughty is fun, but not the main reason for doing it.

Zayn98 - 29 Jan, 2024 - 06:04PM

I definitely get a thrill, not sure if I’d class it as a fetish though!

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