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I like being a mistress...

I was married for a while and when I divorced I decided that relationships aren’t for me. I can’t be doing with all of the angst and insecurities. In 20 years I have been the mistress/lover of 4 men. I like being a mistress. Just great sex and no laundry!! Your thoughts please. X

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outinthesticks - 28 Aug, 2021 - 07:32AM

Too many people are bound by the confirms of a monogamous society. Polygamy for the win…. Be a free spirit… be who you want to be and enjoy who and what you want without being concerned of what others may think. There’s just one life, and no rehearsal. Il always want someone who is excited to see me, and vice versa

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1352755 - 26 Aug, 2021 - 07:01PM

I love being a mistress too
I love the whole package of teasing , texting and exciting a married man
The hotel meet and obviously… the sex side
I get the best of if him and the sex is always amazing
I get what I want … and he does too

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Sarah Sussex - 26 Aug, 2021 - 12:38PM

I love being a mistress too!! Love my freedom but adore men and enjoy their company. But I do need my own space x

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Specialksk61 - 24 Aug, 2021 - 08:42PM

I’ve kind of done both. There are aspects of the “ relationship “ I like and aspects of the thrill of being “the secret”
I’m a bit of a contradiction !! Whilst I’d love to find the elusive relationship that offers me all I desire I’ve found I’ve just been unlucky 😌 guys that say they know how to pleasure a lady then actually not have having a clue.
When I’ve been “ the mistress” I’ve had some of the BEST sex ever. No stress no worries just pure unadulterated sex.
Was great !! I’ve tried the relationships, not that great.
Looking forward to hopefully rekindling that

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truth and logic - 23 Aug, 2021 - 07:46AM

Lucky you easy to see your lover as no alibi needed for you. IS IT JUST THE SEX YOU LIKE A MAN FOR ?Do men here want more than that? My thoughts, if it makes you happy, why not, its not like anyone here can cast the first stone for you sleeping with a married man is!

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1117169 - 22 Aug, 2021 - 11:31PM

@Keeley345

The last sentence of her post says

"Your thoughts please"

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1467074 - 22 Aug, 2021 - 06:16PM

I'm sure there are people out there that wouldn't give you any angst or insecurity but if you're enjoying the mistressing that's all that matters! Do you not have laundry to do after seeing the men though?

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lorettadelray - 22 Aug, 2021 - 03:49PM

Who cares?

And you can also ignore all the women who say 'you go girl!'

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Black widow801 - 22 Aug, 2021 - 02:15PM

Yes I totally agree with what you are saying, no hassles and you get the good part.

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Keeley345 - 22 Aug, 2021 - 12:24PM

Ignore Sportster1200L. The poster is only sharing her feelings about her happy about being a mistress. She hasn't asked for opinions to validate anything. I agree with her though 100%. Being a mistress has it's perks. No commitment, no stress etc This is why I only date guys who are married. It makes life easier.

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