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How quickly can a meeting become sexual?

How quickly should a meet move on to sexual contact, heavy petting inside clothing before full sex for example, and has anyne went to a meet with good intentions of not being too quick, and then got carried away with the excitement of the moment?

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ukhousewife - 10 Jan, 2022 - 02:24PM

If you have clicked online and then in the flesh I would (god this will sound awful) probably expect things to happen that first meet.

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Ponnierai - 08 Jan, 2022 - 07:00PM

I'd like to met someone that wants to get down dirty and lots of touching feeling and likes to be licked. Xxxx


1117169 - 07 Jan, 2022 - 08:23AM

Don't forget to obtain " Consent" before you do guys and gals, preferably in writing for each stage of intimacy or you might be faced with a sexual abuse claim years later. He says, tongue in cheek.

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Paula99 - 07 Jan, 2022 - 05:26AM

Handsomeman1974...
I was chatting to a guy and said I have a few *errands* to run...he was laughing he hadn't heard that for yonks...😆


1491717 - 07 Jan, 2022 - 12:05AM

I would say just go with how you feel at the time.

There are no rules.


Handsomeman1974 - 06 Jan, 2022 - 11:53PM

Heavy petting lmao not heard that term since I was 12
I guess if your both up for it ,it will happen
If one of you isnt it wont
I cant work out if your question is due nerves from performane anexity or gaggeing and cant wait to shake hands say hello wait 15 minutes and get on with some serious heavey petting and after 20 minutes much much more lol

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Sugarbushmaker - 06 Jan, 2022 - 04:26PM

The connection counts, I don't say the f word, it's making love, and you want to make love as if you are utterly and totally in love with the person.

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1480807 - 06 Jan, 2022 - 09:49AM

It all depends on the individuals. Some are slow burners and some have needs there is no one size fits all.
I think what's important is that we should all communicate what we would like and what we don't want before meeting.

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1323413 - 06 Jan, 2022 - 09:14AM

I guess it depends. For me chemistry is everything, if that’s not there then nothing will happen. I couldn’t just have a couple of messages and meet someone (assume sex) and that’s it.

It all depends on the chat and chemistry. I have fucked on the first date a few times. Sounds bad I know but just being honest.

I think as long as the respect and openness there then what’s the issue. Two consenting adults. A similar scenario to if you were on a night out and got on with someone; would you take it further?

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The13thdukeofwybourne - 05 Jan, 2022 - 10:07PM

Was intro'd to a very sexy woman on here via a friend last year. Within 2 days (lots of talking in between) we had a naughty video, we met up the following Monday (5 days later) to check each other out properly. There were kisses. The following day she met me in a hotel and we fucked like bunnies. Sometimes things move fast. Lack of covid restrictions at the time helped.

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