Can attraction not just be physical?
I met a wonderful lady recently. We had been chatting for some time, and finally met up. The connection is definitely there. Things have now progressed to the bedroom. Alas physically I am disappointed. Without going into too much detail, it seems that quite a bit of padding support has been used. I really prefer a ‘good handful’. Much as I really like her, my physical desires for what constitutes a woman are not met. I feel I have been lied to, but do not want to hurt her feelings. How do I let her down gently, or do I stay, as she is very keen and I do love her personality?
Thank you for posting this. I genuinely am in a dilemma!
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1497533 - 28 Mar, 2022 - 11:45AM
Sportster
Yes they do. What you said was lots of ladies. ⬇
I think s lot of ladies think that they need big boobs to serve as an effective gender signal
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1117169 - 28 Mar, 2022 - 11:32AM
@Londonlady6
Some women do indeed choose to have big boobs and pay for the implants.
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1497533 - 28 Mar, 2022 - 09:55AM
Sportster1200L - 28 Mar, 2022 - 07:37AM
You make it sound like we chose to have big boobs. And we only have them for the benefit of men. What a ridiculous comment.
And strangely, women with big boobs also have functioning nipples.
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1497533 - 28 Mar, 2022 - 08:15AM
EmnEm123 - 27 Mar, 2022 - 09:54PM
Some men prefer small and natural. Some of us have more than a handful which are also natural.
The world isn't just small or Katie Price-type
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1117169 - 28 Mar, 2022 - 07:37AM
Small. Every time for me @ EmnEm123
They tend to keep their shape with age and look more youthful anyway. Any more than a handful and a bit is wasted. I think s lot of ladies think that they need big boobs to serve as an effective gender signal. Its not really true for many men
I love hard nipples that stick out a lot too. So nice to suck!
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EmnEm123 - 27 Mar, 2022 - 09:54PM
Not sure that I find this question true or credible.
A bit of 'tit for tat' is definitely going on. (Pardon the pun).
I don't have big boobs, never pad them, to be honest I wouldn't even know how, especially to make them look really big.
What I would like to know is would men prefer a smaller, natural pair or a big, rubbery, pair like Katie Price.
No judgement, what you like is what you like!
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1510783 - 27 Mar, 2022 - 09:52AM
@OP
Normally I wouldn't reply to anything I have a very strong negative view about. Nobody wishes to be berated in front of hundreds of people. But this post has left me slack jawed with shock. You're not in a dilemma at all - you're just being self absorbed. Your post just paints a picture of someone who only cares about what they want out of any IE relationship and little to nothing about the people you're meeting. I'm quite stunned that you are willing to cast aside someone, who comes across as being a really great woman, purely on the basis that you want a large chest to fool about with. This lady deserves far far better than this.
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1394019 - 27 Mar, 2022 - 09:31AM
I don’t think any of us tick every box and I’m quite sure the lovely lady thinks you’re falling short somewhere too. Life is all about compromises and perhaps if the compromise for you is just too much, you should either look deep within yourself at what you actually seek, or look elsewhere.
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1117169 - 25 Mar, 2022 - 02:43PM
@ FluffyCĺouds
Spot on!
A lot of people on here are venting their unrealistic fantasies in the, usually, vain hope that someone ticks all their boxes and then sweeps them off their feet.
Here lies the essence of why many are disappointed and disillusioned and as Doricles has pointed out, this frustration often manifests itself as snarky aggressive comments on the forum.
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FluffyClouds - 25 Mar, 2022 - 01:31PM
I'm sure those married or living together on here has their 'perfect' partner at home. Right height, right weight, no wrinkles, no cellulite, no pot belly, no flabby thighs, no saggy skin, no saggy boobs, no saggy bum, no saggy balls, no grey hair, actually have hair, no boring conversation, great sex life, well hung, great in bed. People looking for perfection on here, when what they have at home in a LOT of cases is far from that. Get real.
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