Can attraction not just be physical?
I met a wonderful lady recently. We had been chatting for some time, and finally met up. The connection is definitely there. Things have now progressed to the bedroom. Alas physically I am disappointed. Without going into too much detail, it seems that quite a bit of padding support has been used. I really prefer a ‘good handful’. Much as I really like her, my physical desires for what constitutes a woman are not met. I feel I have been lied to, but do not want to hurt her feelings. How do I let her down gently, or do I stay, as she is very keen and I do love her personality?
Thank you for posting this. I genuinely am in a dilemma!
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Purple dreamer - 15 Mar, 2024 - 08:47AM
I believe attraction comes in many ways and not just physical , and it would be a shame to end something that is obviously good just because she doesn't fill your hands
ExoticOrchid - 15 May, 2022 - 06:00PM
Mr elusive - 05:16PM
As FC says, it's a wind up.
However, you have contradicted yourself.
You criticised the OP for voicing what he likes and then in the same breath you tell him "Life is short, enjoy what you like."
Surely that's exactly what he's wanting to do ... to enjoy himself with someone who has big breasts.
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FluffyClouds - 15 May, 2022 - 05:24PM
mrelusive -
It is a wind up. In was in retaliation to another post about disappointment in dick size.
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1522626 - 15 May, 2022 - 05:16PM
This can't be a serious post. 'my physical desires for what constitutes a woman'. What a really offensive way of saying you like big breasts. I think it's you that needs to grow a pair, not her. Life is short, enjoy what you like.
Personally I think the post is just a wind up.
608386742 - 07 May, 2022 - 09:15PM
I think it depends on what your expectations are. If your here for the sexual attraction then you should explore that within your chats and messages first and foremost, Rather then building up a relationship then being disappointed when you make it to the bedroom. The other person may have grown towards you and it’s unfair to then break away from what you’ve built because you didn’t stipulate your preferences early on
Cuxton - 07 May, 2022 - 03:06PM
In my eyes you can be attracted to some one but dont mean its right as thats just the cover to a grate story as we shop with owe eyes so once you open up and start sharing your story your life and the good and bad that is still a attraction as the other person understands and has been there they say the world was build with a massive explosion. So y not be the spark to make owe own world and and wright owe own storys as you have a begging then the intensely middle part and the ending is all the love and care rolled up for the final chapter of owe life and it could be owe best seller but just dont juge a book by its cover
Your
Tony x
Lily42 - 05 May, 2022 - 12:32PM
Not quite sure it constitutes being 'lied to'? Potentially you could ask for measurements, bra size pre any future meets... I suspect that may reduce the number of actual meets you get with anyone though 🤔
Also be prepared to share your own measurements, and be honest in case a lady whips a rule out of her handbag
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Cheesypuff - 02 May, 2022 - 09:26PM
I had a similar problem, met a wonderful lady. She had the face of an Angel, truly stunning. She had the body of a goddess, curves in all the right places. She was a wonderful person who volunteered at an orphanage in her free time and had recently donated a kidney to save the life of a total stranger.
Alas after getting her naked I found she had one non-symmetrical areola and so I had to sack her off.
My advice is don't compromise, you deserve better.
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Tillymintz - 02 May, 2022 - 07:10PM
Is that something you truly needed to post for all to see? If you're adept enough to be on IE as a married man you are certainly equipped enough to tell a white lie and not hurt this ladies feelings? I met someone it wasn't what I expected and work was my excuse... Be kind it doesn't take much
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