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ScotRob88 - 18 Dec, 2024 - 08:23AM

I think if you have been chatting for a while your instincts will give you a good gut feeling about who you are chatting with and wether you should continue.

Purple dreamer - 18 Dec, 2024 - 08:02AM

Think it is just as hard for us ladies , response can be hard finding that balance but if the conversation flows is always a good in my book

Paula99 - 29 Sep, 2024 - 10:00AM

Loverablenut1..

Unfortunately there are ‘players ‘ here as in real life ..

This applies to both sexes …😕

1709307 - 28 Sep, 2024 - 12:09PM

It’s hard to tell when you meet how people feel . I met a guy for lunch , he was charming. I went to the bathroom at the same time and he came on to me with a very passionate kiss. We then went to another bar where he rubbed my inner thigh. Apparently he was giving me a good time but not attracted to me. Just testing if he was. ! Strange for an intelligent guy. So my evaluation is you never know !

FluffyClouds - 10 Aug, 2024 - 03:52PM

People are different, but I've found there are plenty of men who just like to talk and nothing else. Talking for days and days. Are they here to meet women or not? 🤔Talking forever doesn't guarantee you a positive outcome...it's the first date that's the most important.

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xxxaffair - 10 Aug, 2024 - 10:11AM

Have you been in the situation where you wasn't feeling it and you stopped making the effort to respond quickly, or you swapped passwords and their pictures didn't do it for you? You might be the kind of person that says what you're feeling and end the conversation or you drift away (aka ghosting).

It shouldn't be necessary to read between the lines. If she's interested then the conversation will flow and develop. If you get that far then ask the question do you want to meet otherwise what's the point; she probably doesn't need a pen pal.

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EmnEm123 - 06 Aug, 2024 - 01:01PM

Lady Heather

There's plenty 'mental' on this place! 😜

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Lady Heather 69 - 04 Aug, 2024 - 03:25PM

I prefer to get to know someone, have a conversation with questions about our lives. Small talk if you will. Let's face it, majority of people are here to meet up and have sex.For sex to be good there needs to be a mental connection first.

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Jonnydieppe - 01 Aug, 2024 - 06:47PM

I send very lovely, normal, human messages to my matched IEs , I don’t ‘think’ I’m doing anything wrong? I’m a nice guy, I’m successful in my work life, I’m creative, arty and have plenty of time for meets. Yet 99% of the time I get no response, I can see women have seen my message, sometimes numerous, yet get no reply. It’s either rude, in which case I’m not interested anyway :) or I’m doing things wrong.

It’s the craziest site I’ve been on.

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1689233 - 29 Jul, 2024 - 01:08PM

The "just being friendly" line applies to the outside world. We're all here for the same reason so if someone is replying to you then they're interested!

I am me, I'm not trying to strike any balance. I'm neurodiverse so spent my whole life masking who I am. Be considerate but be yourself first. Affairs can be a great way to gain an insight into yourself so listen to what woman say about why they're here - you might find a mirror being held up to yourself. That's the real meaningful change you can make.

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