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Funguy77 - 29 Aug, 2023 - 09:33AM

Do you consider a date night that ends in a snogging as an affair ?

Having a debate with like minded colleagues some say yes totally where I say no it’s just a kiss ?

Thoughts

Marlen - 29 Aug, 2023 - 05:54AM

@Paula99, you're right long distance relationships do take more effort. They're also easier when your in work, which is not an issue for most of us, including me😁.
So keep searching everyone, it should be worth the effort, but isn't always.

Sandypops - 29 Aug, 2023 - 02:51AM

The furthest I've travelled is an hour and a half. The closest, 5 mins away from where I live and a minute from my business premises 🤦🏻‍♀️
And I did spend the day with a guy (we went shopping for clothes for his holiday during his 'recovery' break 😂) in a town about half an hour from where I live. Due to my business, a lot of people know me and a client came up to me a few weeks later and said 'oh I saw you in Staines the other week'. My mind was racing so I just said 'oh you should have said hi' her reply 'you looked busy' got me thinking where she might have seen me - the kiss in the glass lift, kissing in the car park, holding hands, his arm round me or at the hotel 🤦🏻‍♀️ and thinking thank goodness she didn't say it in front of my daughter (who works with me) especially if she'd assumed I was with my husband who I'm sure she's met a few times.
But the guy is a bit of a risk taker as well. We'd meet 10 mins from his house and I went to his house 🤦🏻‍♀️
I like reg

Esther45 - 28 Aug, 2023 - 09:35PM

Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.Jealousy is not a sign of true love; it's insecurities that comes in the way, 'cause love has just one important ingredient: Trust

ExoticOrchid - 28 Aug, 2023 - 01:05PM

As per my comment from the other week:

[ExoticOrchid - 01 Aug, 2023 - 01:52PM

It can be either or it can be both ... those involved need to make a lot of effort, in fact one
party more than the other with travelling for distance to work.]

In my experience, most men would say "distance is not a problem" when they are super keen at the start and then when the novelty has worn off then "distance becomes a problem" ... however, there are also those who make 200% effort to make it work, not just from another county BUT from another country!!! Go figure!

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Funguy77 - 26 Aug, 2023 - 07:53PM

Scottish get together!!

Who’s up for a informal meet up in Edinburgh or Glasgow guys and girls . We can arrange a venue if we get the numbers and have a laugh at speed dating . You never know might be fun / awkward but fun 🤩

Let’s get it sorted

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1575958 - 26 Aug, 2023 - 04:46PM

@ Funguy77 there is truth in that. You also have a much bigger population in and around Edinburgh.

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Funguy77 - 26 Aug, 2023 - 03:31PM

@ tarnished knight - 26 Aug, 2023 - 03:26PM

I’m personally West Lothian but work and play in Edinburgh. Your only 2 hours away but the trouble with Aberdeen is that’s it’s students and oil money. Edinburgh is student truest and the capital 500k people ver 200k
And lots of week day workers from London so just more opportunity

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1575958 - 26 Aug, 2023 - 03:26PM

@ Funguy77 which bit of Scotland are you in? Up here in Aberdeenshire it's bleak.

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Funguy77 - 26 Aug, 2023 - 01:53PM

@ Legs&Eyes - 26 Aug, 2023 - 01:02PM

No we had met for coffees has lots of chat over the past few weeks / month got on really well then on the day of the hotel all excited she done a runner but right after I paid for the hotel lol . So had a nice morning watching tv in the hotel 😂.

It’s fine I’m back on it and have a first date on the 7th . I’m onlooking for one but seem to be getting though quite a lot ..

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