Casual?
I'm wary of profiles that say they are looking for 'casual'. My interpretation of 'casual' is seeing someone once in a blue moon, no relationship external of a bedroom, and being messaged whenever they feel they need sex. Sometimes you read the rest of a profile and they are looking for one person and want a meaningful affair. What gives?
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Paula99 - 12 Aug, 2024 - 08:54PM
EE123…
Maybe slap n tickle comes under the heading ‘ insightful questions’…😂😂😂
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Paula99 - 12 Aug, 2024 - 07:16PM
People perceive ‘ casual ‘ in different ways ….?
For many it could just mean ‘ a bit of slap n tickle ‘ every month or so…for others it could be something that is outside their normal routine…..the word casual has many meanings like most English words…
In my world it means something extra on the side but you don’t always want to eat it ….so it becomes low on your priority list..
The urban dictionary says it for me …
, often when referring to gamers or any other target, that isn't really into it and only does this activity on an infrequent basis while being terrible at it.
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Paula99 - 12 Aug, 2024 - 07:06PM
Looking forward to ‘insightful questions ‘ what ever they may be …makes the forum more interesting 🤔
1408586 - 12 Aug, 2024 - 05:03PM
Being totally honest I would 99% of the time ignore a profile that said casual/fwb/NSA etc.
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EmnEm123 - 12 Aug, 2024 - 01:47PM
marklondonengland
You're free to ask what you regard as insightful questions if you wish?
marklondonengland - 12 Aug, 2024 - 01:29PM
Of course one of the first exchanges you will always have is to determine that you are on the same page regarding what you want from this... when will we get any insightful questions in the forum or they are all this shallow?
EmnEm123 - 12 Aug, 2024 - 12:51PM
I'm only looking for something "casual". What I perceive that to be is not casual hook ups with multiple men but meeting with one person now and again for some adult fun. I don't really want to be in touch with someone all day everyday but of course everyone is different.
What I'm more wary of are the guys who state on their profiles that they're looking for dinner, drinks, weekends away and then say Tuesday daytime is best for me? 🤔
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YourSecretLover - 12 Aug, 2024 - 12:40PM
I think it has to be casual, and if it clicks, it will end up a regular thing. There's no point in committing to a full blown discrete relationship on day 1.
1680841 - 12 Aug, 2024 - 10:29AM
Casual is quite an non-commital word and maybe that's the point.
What doesn't help is having to choose between that and 'see how it goes' which for some, could be the same thing.
I wouldn't see it as a red flag in either case. The member(s) concerned may not have decided what sort of relationship they're looking for or may be just as wary of how they are perceived.
As some have already noted; conversations you have with your IE will often dictate the type of relationship you end up with.
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