Needle in a Haystack
It's my first time trying anything like this and having looked at a lot of ladies profiles I'm beginning to think that I'm a niche bloke.
Not being 6feet tall, gym going or smart dressing seems to put me in the "get in the sea" category with many.
Have any other "niche" blokes had success finding ladies who take them as they are?
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Aspire5725 - 30 May, 2024 - 07:56PM
R declared fully agree with your stats.
Like you keeping the faith.
Black Gent - 30 May, 2024 - 05:13PM
In the country that i was born in a local saying was " Every pot has a lid!". Go find yours. Besides I have seen may ads here who do not have such requirements over height, or gym, or smart dressing but it does help to smarten up for a date if the woman is the sort ot make an effort.
R Deckard - 19 May, 2024 - 07:52PM
It is a needle in a haystack. A lady who - hypothetically - messaged every single male user who has logged in the last week, would get a maximum theoretical response rate of 33%. For guys, it would be around 10-15%.
That's the theoretical maximum.
In my last month, of my conversations that went past promising messaging, pw exchange, migration to Telegram, more chat, discussion of time for 1st date, half have vanished before actually meeting. Poof.
Still, keep the faith. And prepare Plan B!
1643275 - 19 May, 2024 - 01:10PM
Delicious Chaos
I think we both need to move locations 😉.
Delicious Chaos - 19 May, 2024 - 12:09PM
Enigma completely agree with you.
I seem to have encountered a lot on here recently who promise the world but when it comes to it, can’t even find the time to meet up properly to embark on the affair. If your life really is that busy you shouldn’t be on here!!
I really don’t understand, men pay the money but can’t deliver. Answers on a postcard please…..
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Enigma.. - 19 May, 2024 - 07:29AM
@Peaches1
I’ve noticed a big difference in the site since coming back on in 2022 and unfortunately it’s not for the better.
To many think they are entitled, have large egos and the wrong sort of attitudes.
I’ve noticed that there are a lot more time wasters on the site too.
Males/females who have no intentions of meeting up or are to busy with “real life” to meet up 🙄.
Also double dipping (messaging multiple females/males at the same time) and multiple accounts seem to be the “in thing” these days.
So why join the site if all you are going to do is fannie about the site or won’t or can’t meet up!?! 🙄🤷🏼♀️
You’re just going to p1ss people off and get ghosted or blocked.
The biggest issues I’m having are lack of availability and conflicting schedules.
That and the lack of new members in the areas I’m interested in.
But hey! At least there is always Flirt Forum for entertainment lol 😂 🍿🥤
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Liamjs - 19 May, 2024 - 06:38AM
Have just joined myself aged 30 seems 99% of people on here are over 45 and not interested.
1669730 - 18 May, 2024 - 11:04PM
Don’t know about you but, niche or not, I was on this site about 5, 6 years ago with more success. I was, what, 46 then, now I’m 53. Apart from that age difference, I can’t see how I’ve changed that much, but so far a meaningful exchange on here this time has being like getting blood out of a stone.
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1671994 - 18 May, 2024 - 06:22PM
I get that as a man it must be hard to find someone but I am not picky so say hi haha x
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