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Clickable Connection - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:37PM

ExoticOrchid - 03 Jan, 2025 - 11:07AM

Can't speak for other guys , but I can definitely speak from my own experience. I've dated some women who are nothing but tits and bums - but if they didn't have the personality, I loose interest very quickly - it's happened on one than one occasion.

Having done this for awhile , I know what works for me - and it goes way beyond their physical appearance

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1542044 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:26PM

Energy

Delicious Chaos - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:16PM

EO

Haha I’m humouring the man. Of course I don’t lol

I’m sure he’s after brownie points ;-)

Delicious Chaos - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:15PM

EO haha considering some of the messages I’ve received recently then yes you’re probably right. Some men on here send some outrageous messages that they would never put on public!

Delicious Chaos - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:13PM

The most beautiful man in the world can be awful! Back in the day I started an affair with the most beautiful man, women would look at him when we went public but he was awful in bed and was actually very boring.
Whilst a man needs to be attractive, a good personality with no bullshit will do it for me. However if I’m not feeling it from a photo exchange then I just won’t meet them anymore. Inside I know what I want and I’m not going to settle until I find it.

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ExoticOrchid - 03 Jan, 2025 - 11:57AM

DC - 09:16AM

You believe it? 🤔🤣

ExoticOrchid - 03 Jan, 2025 - 11:07AM

DC - 09:16AM

Did you really expect the men to be honest enough to actually say that??? 🤔

As for the comments by the men here ... yeah right! 🙄

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Here we go 693 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 11:06AM

Definitely personality and chemistry. I actually find women of all shapes and sizes attractive, but what generally gets me going is having the connection with them.

Shallwehavecoffee - 03 Jan, 2025 - 11:03AM

I think how I find a woman attractive is when someone feel comfortable and confident in how they look.

But I do appreciate we will always be unhappy about something, being comfortable with it speaks volumes

Clickable Connection - 03 Jan, 2025 - 10:55AM

To me attractiveness is how someone holds themselves, their facial expressions, their level of engagement with you , that lingering eye contact.

A smile that lights up the room , someone you can get lost in and wonder where the time went

All of this wrapped in a personality that you instantly connect with and can't get enough of.

Yea there's got to be some level of physical attractiveness for sure , but it's not all tits and bums for me - it goes well beyond that.

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