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Buxom and bored - 26 Mar, 2025 - 03:14PM

If he's told you he's happy with you and committed then there's no reason for him to be on here, let alone paying for a subscription. Protect your health and get yourself a sexual health test ASAP to rule out any nasties then insist on protection if you continue to see him.
If it bothers you that he's chatting/ potentially meeting other women, then bite the bullet and tell him you're not happy with that arrangement.
Some people like to rack up notches on the bedpost and will tell you anything you want to hear just to get into you're undies, but if you've specifically discussed being exclusive, then personally I wouldn't even give him another chance. Block, delete and find someone who suits you better

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marklondonengland - 26 Mar, 2025 - 02:36PM

It also depends on circumstances. For a married person, it's already challenging to keep one affair going so in this case you could be justified in asking if your partner really wants to make it work as an ongoing thing or they are just seeking one encounter after another... I did have a period on here years ago when I was single and I made ir clear that I didn't want a serious long-term relationship - which is why I was on here as a single man - but at the same time I would not expect a married woman to be insisting that she can tell me who I can and cannot see - so it was clear for everyone...

Lander1011 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 01:11PM

Personally, I would be content with one good relationship but others may wish for other things. An IE means that there is never true exclusivity. Best to enjoy your moments together when you can and be honest with each other.

Cheryl Kim - 26 Mar, 2025 - 10:04AM

There are non-paying men and women on the flirt forum, and this is a place for a bit of support and banter.


When a man takes his credit card out to pay for a membership……well, you know the reason why that is.

Good luck!

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Paula99 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 09:18AM

Trust is earned not given …

IE relationships have their restrictions like normal ones …and you have to learn to accept this …it’s difficult to talk about trust in circumstances surrounding IE …we are all thieves. Any relationship has to be nurtured until you feel comfortable’ ..not as in pipe and slippers but until you really know each other then you can relax a little …this is where the word ‘ trust’ comes into play…the clue is not to get anxious about it ….just take it for what it is .. 🤞

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PoundCakeRecipe - 26 Mar, 2025 - 09:18AM

Yeah... he is seeing and having sex with others. Get your head out of the sand.

No point in debating this, there is literally no reason to be on the site or pay the high costs if you are "mutually exclusive" in your affair. The fact you are even questioning it means you feel a slight disengagement.

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