Am I just being over sensitive or is this acceptable?
OK I've met a few people from this site and one recently who appears really nice and genuine. We have met in person and been chatting daily for a few weeks. We have discussed taking things to the next level being a hotel meet. My gripe is what are your thoughts on people who say they are looking for one person to have a long term arrangement with but find they are regularly active on IE? Am I just being over sensitive or is this acceptable? I did not log on for some time after meeting but find the person is on here quite regular. If you met someone you wanted to take things further with do you say something or not find this an issue?
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Delicious Chaos - 10 Apr, 2023 - 05:52PM
Circa
Yep totally agree. There must be some really understanding lovers out there ? 🤣🤔
1590175 - 10 Apr, 2023 - 05:48PM
If I was having an affair with someone who wasn't from IE, Im not sure he would be that happy knowing I was seeing him (behind my husbands back which he would obvs know about) but also logging in daily to a marital affair website as well?! I think he would quite rightly question why I was doing this, I also dont think telling him I log in regularly because I enjoy the forum would cut it either. Just my opinion!
Delicious Chaos - 10 Apr, 2023 - 05:44PM
MW
I agree with you, what I don’t agree with is those that pretend they’re not!
People need to be honest
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MatureWorcsBBW - 10 Apr, 2023 - 05:37PM
If you are here and your married friend is not, why wouldn't you be on here looking for a better arrangement.
Or even if both of you are still on here while you're having a mutually satisfactory.
arrangement.
It isn't beyond the realms of understanding that you can still be looking for more than one arrangement.
If it works, why wouldn't you.
I find it incredulous that married people think they have the right to try to limit your extracurricular activities to just one person.
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Delicious Chaos - 10 Apr, 2023 - 05:20PM
Haha ok Paula
I’m definitely not bitter thank you very much. Just one of the few on here who actually say it as it is rather than hide behind something they are not. Just before you jump in there I’m not directing this at you at all but you seem to be taking the bait my love 😘
Paula99 - 10 Apr, 2023 - 05:10PM
IYM …
Contrary to what you think I am not bad minded ..I am fair to be honest ..
My guy isn’t from IE …I am not begging for attention and I am not stacking up endless guys ..
Yes I do know where I am but being ‘bitter’ is not going to help the cause 😕
Delicious Chaos - 10 Apr, 2023 - 04:53PM
Oh come on Paula99
Shall we just go with the majority then?
You’re either very naive, which I doubt
Or you fall into one of those categories?
Come on! Remember where you are
Paula99 - 10 Apr, 2023 - 04:39PM
IYM…
There is no need to be sorry … I respect yours/others opinions but these things are never black n white 👍
Delicious Chaos - 10 Apr, 2023 - 09:56AM
P99
Even more reason not to be here then if you should be focusing on your marriage/partnership/kids etc?!
I’m sorry but if you are in an IE relationship and you are both still on here, there’s a few reasons for that
1. You want more attention from online strangers
2. You’re looking for something better to come along
3. You’re checking up on your IE
Anyone who says different is kidding themselves
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Paula99 - 10 Apr, 2023 - 08:58AM
IYM …
Ideally the focus should be on your marriage/partnership …there is much more to consider than your IE ..so I am not sure I can agree with you there..
The posts in here define that we all use this website in different ways 😊
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