Comments (11)

Here we go 693 - 09 Jan, 2025 - 10:41AM

HotMess2025

Great sentiment, too little kindness and respect around.

Clickable Connection - 09 Jan, 2025 - 09:05AM

HotMess2025 - 08 Jan, 2025 - 10:22PM

Mate , thats so sad. It's great you're able to take the time you had together and treasure it.

I've often thought about how i might feel if my IE passed away. It's not a normal situation, you can't share your grief with their family or friends, attend funeral, help find that closure. In some cases how would you even know they have passed away ? Such a hard one to navigate

HotMess2025 - 08 Jan, 2025 - 10:22PM

She was cruelly taken by cancer and at such a young age too. We had a fabulous summer together and I'll forever treasure her positivity and spark.

It taught me that life is too short for stupid mind games, so always choose kindness, show respect, and strive to bring out the best in each other

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auburnjamie1980 - 08 Jan, 2025 - 07:26PM

It lasted over a year and was great however she had a car accident which resulted in a driving ban . just too difficult after that given the distance.

Would definately look more local in future .

Here we go 693 - 08 Jan, 2025 - 06:21PM

Claudia1011

We are still good friends and chat everyday via telegram. We both recognise the connection we have.

Here we go 693 - 08 Jan, 2025 - 05:55PM

Claudia1011

We are still good friends and chat everyday via telegram. We both recognise the connection we have.

Wantingfun01 - 08 Jan, 2025 - 03:26PM

That's the thing, not letting it get too serious and just remembering you both have other lives to lead.
Mine lasted a couple of years on and off for various reasons- COVID being one of them.
I did miss him but he wasn't my husband, boyfriend or partner.
Just try to relax and enjoy it is my tip

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marklondonengland - 08 Jan, 2025 - 02:50PM

I'm still seeing someone I met here 18 years ago. It's only occasional, because we have both moved, but when we know that we can both be in the same city at the same time, we try to meet!

Claudia1011 - 08 Jan, 2025 - 12:34PM

It lasted almost amazing 3 years. My affair partners marriage ended - he was looking for a way out- my marriage remained but he needed more and moved on. We still keep in touch occasionally but there is a massive void.

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Here we go 693 - 08 Jan, 2025 - 09:48AM

Laugar164

That's kind of what happened to me. We were together for nearly a year and I couldn't have been happier, until it ended before Christmas. She was looking for an escape from her husband and decided she needed to move on. I have to be honest it really affected me, to the degree I'm trying to work out what I'm going to do. I don't want to rush into anything with anyone else (as if that's likely to happen where I live!!). I'm actually contemplating whether it's time I moved on...