SeroDopa

About Me:

Professional, married guy, all the home life stuff taken care of, but needing (wanting, really...) that extra sensation and excitement from the extracurricular and illicit. Partner-in-crime seems like the best description.

About me: highly trained post-grad professional, respected job, works full time and bloody hard. I need an outlet with someone in the same position. The exigencies of life mean I am unable to promise very frequent meet-ups, but I enjoy doing the spadework of regular contact so that meetings, when they can happen, are electrifying and highly anticipated. I’d want you in my mind constantly between our meetings, and want to be in yours as well.

I was a nerd before being a nerd was sexy, but carry it well. Drop dead gorgeous nerds will find an easy in with me. But my tastes are broad and range to the ‘normal’ as well: politics, comedy, good wine or beer, good food (home cooked or dining out are equally good—and yes, I can cook, although there might not readily be chances for me to demonstrate this). I couldn’t give a toss about most sports.

Physical specs:
I’m no gym bunny but I’m in decent shape: 6’1”, broad shoulders, narrow(er) waist, excellent legs (regular commuting by cycle). No six-pack; there’s a bit of tummy that I’m hoping some boxing training will finally shift. All own teeth and hair. Light beard. Salt & pepper hair. Clean, smells nice. Friends comment that I’m an attractive guy, but you’ll have to be your own judge. I guess I’d say I’m reasonably attractive; my smile has been known to cause some flutterings, I’m told. Quizzical eyebrow available on request, or when you’ve piqued my interest. I understand that physical attraction is important in this kind of endeavour, so won’t be offended if I’m not in your target range.

One tattoo, discreet, personal to me, inoffensive. No piercings or jewellery (aside from a watch).

Photos are available for a mutual swap.

I prefer to dress casually (jeans, trainers, casual shirt), and so look dynamite in a suit or when I scrub up. For added emphasis, I should state that no suit is complete without a waistcoat.

I prefer pubs to clubs, and love a good restaurant. I like all cuisines; curries are always a safe bet.

Sex-wise: largely vanilla but I do a passable dom (especially for younger women) and enjoy some role play. I don’t have a major kink or fetish but I’ve tried most things over the years with different women, have never really turned down a chance to experiment and am always open to new ideas. I’m rediscovering a much healthier and robust sex drive, something I thought I’d long ago put away, and I want to play.

Oh, and I’m bloody funny, although you’d for forgiven for not thinking so after reading this. Routinely told off at work by bosses for my inappropriate sense of humour, and loved by colleagues for the same reason. I know where the line is, and sometimes can’t help tiptoe across it. It helps if you’ve got a dark sense of humour as well, or at least are prepared to laugh at my jokes. Humour is my defence mechanism; it keeps me sane. It, and my presence here, are outlets for my subversive side: I’m a good guy who needs this outlet (amongst others...) to keep me on an even keel.

Ideal Partner:

Above anything else, I’m a sapiophile: bring a brain. You don’t need to be Mensa-grade (I’m not sure I am, to be honest) but you must have at least some sparkle and wit. Because contact via media will be important, I need you to be able to share in thoughtful, imaginative banter and chat. (LOLs or smileys will be subject to harsh sanctions.) I want to look forward to your messages and get a shiver of excitement when one arrives. Throw in a correctly-used semicolon and I’ll likely be your bitch.

Just in case this reads too dryly, I am not looking to join a book club. We both know why we’re here; I just want it done with a little style...

Physically, I don’t have an overriding type I prefer. Natural and easygoing wins out over dressed up and sculpted, I guess. Be yourself. Honesty and candour are my biggest turn-ons. I’m here for someone real. I’m not making this kind of effort for someone who’s not going to take it seriously.

All the usual boundaries are respected. I want to have.an open, uninhibited and frank conversation, without any judgement, about how this might work and, yes, what we might want to do to each other. In eye-wateringly graphic detail, if that floats your boat, but I also want us to explore each other fully.

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Dance / Electronic, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Politics, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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