Hertsguy36

About Me:

Many thanks for taking the time to look at my profile , I must admit I am not a great lover of filling these things out...

So a little about me, I would describe myself as a warm hearted kind middle aged guy, whilst still young at heart I am also enjoying the comfort feeling of being happy in my own skin, certainly not perfect but happy with who I am and how I conduct myself around others.

Yes I am married like many here, I seek a connection on here with one lady only, a connection that extends out of the bedroom, I would like to find a friend and a lover. Someone who is happy to chat and message between meeting up. I like to think I’m happy and fun, life has its serious moments but it’s essential that any convention on here is fun.

I am a passionate guy, but lacking someone to share those highs with, there is nothing like that first kiss, that first touch, and that first feeling of being touched. That rush of endorphins that sets your skin alight, the first kiss to the back of your neck as I feel you relax into me is what I desire.

Ideal Partner:

My ideal partner, so difficult to answer. I would like to meet someone attractive, but know that can be very subjective but think it is important there is an attraction there.

That said, attraction for me comes in many forms, I’m very much of the mind that it is only as you get to know someone that true deep attraction can grow, the more you get to know someone’s personality that can only enhance the feelings of attraction.

I would like a lady who takes care of themselves, I’m
certainly no Olympian and don’t expect you to be either (fine if you are 😂), but someone who keeps themselves in shape and looks after themselves would be ideal.

Ideally someone who is, kind, polite, and maybe willing to push boundaries when the time is right, but most of all just an all round decent person would be ideal, a good person who will enjoy my company as much as I enjoy theirs. I’m a firm believer in the old adage of treating others how you wish to be treated in return.

I have always felt a connection is key, someone I can trust ( yes remarkable levels of contradiction here ), but I too pride myself on being open and honest, would appreciate it hugely if you were too. A connection is key, I have no interest in one offs or meaningless meets, what I ideally seek requires a deeper connection. Be you, no games or masks required, I want to get to know the real you.

Something that is important to me is the emotion of desire, I want to feel desired, equally I want to desire after someone, I feel that is the two most crucial elements to whatever connection could come from meeting someone on IE. Is that too much to ask?

If I send a message it is because you have caught my eye, something in your profile resonates with me and therefore my message will just be a genuine attempt to reach out to you, I know some of you ladies receive too many messages, many inappropriate, but that said I would hugely appreciate a reply, as I have said above, I appreciate those that treat others as they wish to be treated, a ‘no thanks’ is so much more welcome than the dreaded silence .

Just a bit of fun to break the ice…

One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question. Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your status and see what people ask you!... My dare done! Now I dare you. -

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Gardening, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Mountaineering, Ice / Snow Sports, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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