RobDLon

About Me:

Change of tack … I’m going to be brutally honest about what I want and who I am. No more time-wasters on your side please and no more underselling myself on mine. Humble (humility is my default) doesn’t seem to work here.

Despite what you are about to read I’m not actually an arrogant person; I put others first, I am empathetic, generous, gentle and caring. This profile will come across as haughty but you’re in luck because it’s all true. (I also realise that I was born lucky, not with a silver spoon in my mouth but with a good endowment which I have not wasted. I don’t deserve my charmed life but it’s the only one I have and I’m going to make the best of it.)

We are going to talk, laugh and f**k. Over and over again (just give me an hour in between). I can hold a conversation, I will surprise you and I know my way around the female body. Better than 99% of the men on here. I won’t come until you have, ideally more than once in quick succession. (Women are sooo lucky to be able to do that!)

I am a feminist - I’ll cook for you as many times as you’ll cook for me. I do a lot more housework than your average man (though I prefer to pay staff to do it). I will ask you questions and want to listen to your answers. You will be the centre of my attention when we are together and I’ll think about you when we are not. I won’t be Snapping the moment as we dine and chat.

I’m 6’2”, athletic (still have a six-pack) and am well above average in terms of looks, for my age. I am not short of money, partly because I’m hard-working and ambitious. I am not the one in the office whom you pity because their life is in a rut and they don’t seem capable of making a change. I make things happen, I am a can-do person. I dress well whether it’s a navy single breasted suit, black-tie or dressed down in something from All Saints. I turn heads, not because I am Gandy but because I put the effort in.

I only eat in the best restaurants when on a date and my idea of a romantic rendezvous is something exciting that we haven’t done before; it is the opposite of sitting in a cinema and not talking to each other. I am an optimist and I don’t believe in conspiracy theories. I detest the far left and far right with equal venom. I am an odd mix of normal yet top of the class. I tend to win but when I don’t that’s fine.

I am serious about important things that need care or effort but forever joking about the frivolous. I have a voracious appetite for knowledge and aim for perfection in much of what I do (when I’m not being practically minded). On the autistic/ADHD spectra I am at the zero end. Ha! I am self-aware enough to realise that by saying so I’ve probably put myself on the spectrum. I’m now a grown up - no longer the man-child I once was. A one-woman man who enjoys the company of an equal.

Despite what it might seem I am laidback, accommodating and I don’t lose my temper. When the relationship ends, for whatever reason, I won’t cry and I won’t stalk you.

Ideal Partner:

I’m after the female version of me please. You will be well educated, successful, confident, sophisticated, well dressed and healthy. Feminine but not necessarily submissive. I want to be with someone whom I consider an equal.

Height, skin colour or hair length/colour do not matter however I’m unlikely to get excited unless you are at the low end of the BMI scale (from skinny to athletic). I realise that none of us is in their twenties anymore so I’m not going to be unrealistic. Some of you will describe yourself as ‘average’ because you are modest so I won’t dismiss you out of hand.

I’m sapiosexual and have to ‘click’ with the person I’m seeing. If you can’t hold an intelligent conversation - after warming up of course - then we’re not for each other. I like wit and sarcasm and someone who can give as good as they get.

I’ll share my private photos if you do the same. If you don’t have photos on this site then that means you are not serious (yet). I simply don’t have time to engage in weeks long conversations in some kind of Cyrano de Bergerac/Roxanne re-enactment.

Ps, if I go to the trouble of writing you a pleasant message and share my photo password and you reply by immediately blocking me then I’ve learnt two things; you are a sh1t human and I’ve had a lucky escape. Decent people say thank you and know how to move on in a polite way. Thank you

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Gardening, Literature / History, Motor Racing, Dancing, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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