SirrahNek

About Me:

I really love my wife, she's one of my greatest friends - but her libido has disappeared entirely, and mine hasn't. Probably a common story. So I'm not interested in doing anything that might deliberately jeopardise that - and by that I mean we need to be discreet!.

I'm university educated and I work in a medical research related role in one of the big university cities. I'm not a clubber (any more! Although I hear that there are now clubs for older people, I’d give them a go!) or a smoker, and I would ideally like everyone to work together to make the world a better place - I'm not frightened of immigrants, and I think that the sound of a language that I can't understand is a beautiful thing!

I like to make and repair things, I like running and cycling long distances (I like being outside, I love an adventure), reading (on a stormy night, with a glass of something warming, and a roaring fire), listening to music (all sorts), cooking (all sorts), painting (badly), days out with the family (and days out without the family) - you know, the usual sorts of things a man in their fifties is into. I'm not afraid of rolling my sleeves up and getting my hands dirty.

I wear sportswear only for doing sport. I wear jeans and t-shirts most of the time - and I have a fondness for fairly expensive suits (so it's a pity that work doesn't require them to be worn anymore!).

I’m looking for a kindred spirit, a fellow adventurer, someone who’d like to snuggle up in the warmth of the fire, someone who is in a similar position to me and wants to revel in glorious secret with me. I want to steal some time with you to feel special again, and I want to make you feel special again.

But first… shall we text here? Then progress to talking, before maybe meeting in a cosy cafe with no expectations - except that we’ll both meet someone new, and hopefully enjoy each others company for a while so that we can make up our minds.

Ideal Partner:

I'd love to hear from women in the 40 to 60 range who are in a similar position to me - i.e. in a marriage where the sexual spark has gone, someone who wants to be loved and wanted again. Let's start with chatting, sharing experiences, and take it from there. The ideal woman for me is curious, kind, generous, empathetic, and has an open mind. I’d love to hear about you and what excites you, what your passions and interests are.

If you're not sure that I've described you, but you like my profile, no matter, say “Hi” anyway.

Non-smoker a must, not even recreationally. Nothing is a giveaway quite like the smell of cigarettes on a non-smoker!

As to how you look, I don’t care too much - if you want to share your photos then that’s fine (it might be handy if we meet in person!), but what I really care about is who you are.

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Gardening, Music - Alternative, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Literature / History, Cycling, Computers / Internet, Movies / Cinema, Cooking

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