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About Me:

Professional, fit, healthy, sane and solvent (just about, despite best efforts). Kind, polite, happy and sensual - on balance, I'm a nice guy. Once described as "annoyingly good looking" (but never heard from her again, so your mileage may vary).

Married with a small family, I'm still a hopeless romantic - although a very sexual person with a bit of spice to my vanilla. I love the summer outdoors - the beach at sunrise and warm hot nights. Pubs and people, solace and quiet. Winter nights in, and a decent box set. Good wine (just to set expectations... £7.99 from One Stop, not the £4.99 own brand) and good company.

Like most here, somehow, we stopped being lovers, and settled for friends. Maybe even just co-parents. And whilst it all works perfectly for family life (which I wouldn't change for the world), I need that spark, that connection, and that intimacy back. I'm looking for one person, someone I can laugh with, communicate with, and play with.

I work in front of screens, and so like to spend a lot of my spare time moving and keeping active. I'm in the gym when I can, although by no means a preener, and like to keep fit with anything from boxing to hiking, and especially anything on the water.

I'm discreet, respectful, understanding of boundaries and trustworthy.

Ideal Partner:

How do you define lightning in a jar? Chemistry is a hard thing to predict, but when it's there, you both know pretty quick.
Generally, I'm attracted to women who are confident, bit sassy, happy in their own skin, funny, sarcastic, flirty and sensual. Someone who knows they don't have to dress to the nines or do their make up and hair for me to see the real person. Someone who gives as good as they get, full of chat, but is happy to share the lows with the highs.

I could make a wish list of physical "nice to haves", but in all honesty, outside of being largely overweight, I find I am attracted to all sorts of shapes and sizes.

Other Interests:

Cars / Motorcycles, Billiards / Pool / Darts, Music - Dance / Electronic, Music - Rock, Hiking / Camping, Boxing / Wrestling, Gym / Aerobics, Martial Arts, Sailing / Boating, Computers / Internet, Movies / Cinema

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