helenhedonist

About Me:

I am a happily married and very sensuous woman looking for discreet, no strings fun with gentlemen over 50 years of age, married or otherwise . I am highly educated and sophisticated but am also very down to earth, with a good sense of humour.

Please note that I neither offer nor expect exclusivity. I am happy to have one-off meets or something more regular if we get on...but I am NOT seeking anything other than extremely discreet social and sexual encounters.

I am not in the first flush of youth (to put it mildly...if you seek the bloom of youth, please pass me by), so please do not expect me to look younger than my age (I am a grandmother, after all). But I exercise every day and am in good shape all things considered. I am a size 14 and my bust is 34E. My photos were taken in February 2023. Please note that my private photo does not show my face and I will not show it here.

I am open-minded and adventurous with a wide range of cultural interests. I enjoy conversing with people of all types.

Ideal Partner:

My main requirements are that you are clean, reliable and discreet. I can meet in the South Yorkshire/North Derbyshire region.

I am NOT looking for a relationship, but for cultured and attractive men who want to enjoy a coffee or even dinner in pleasant surroundings with a sensuous woman whom they wish to seduce. I do not exclude anyone on ethnic grounds.

If at our initial meeting we do sense a spark between us, we plan our next encounter (which will be a very physical one...), but if not, we finish our drink and go our separate ways without regrets.

As I don't want to waste my time or yours, I will arrange meetings only with men that I have reasonable confidence about hitting it off with. SAFE SEX (if we get to that point) IS ESSENTIAL.

I lead a busy life so any encounters would have to fit in around that, but I have thought carefully about it and I am fully committed to meeting the right sort of man (or men!). However, I am simply unable to meet away from my own area - it is just not practical. I can meet at weekends only rarely. I can sometimes meet during weekdays and weekday evenings (though not at the drop of a hat - I need to make my arrangements carefully!).

Please be realistic about potential meetings both in terms of location and timing - I am receiving messages from men at the other end of the country, which is just wasting my time and yours.

If we meet, hit it off, and enjoy each other, we may in due course progress to meetings at my home when my husband is away - but you will understand that this will require a high level of trust to have developed between us.

I am receiving a huge number of messages and am regrettably unable to reply to them all. Please accept my apologies if I fail to reply to you.

I am looking particularly (though this is not set in stone, so single men who fit my criteria should message me if they are interested in meeting) for men in the same position as me - married - who can meet me in the areas mentioned above.

I should also repeat: I am not looking for a relationship (though I would be comfortable with an ongoing, no strings discreet affair).

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Literature / History, Gym / Aerobics, Singing / Playing Instrument, Theatre / Ballet, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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