soulman_69

About Me:

First time here so used the profile generator so bear with me.

I have just joined and having a look around. Bit nervous about this big step so:

If you have messaged me I honestly haven't ignored you but I thought I would look around here first and see what it's like for a short while before I take the plunge and sign up fully if I think it's for me.

Further to this now - I have very few opportunities to get away in my current situation.
Possibly some daytimes may be the more possible & if honest even evenings can be tricky.

Perhaps I need to suspend my account for now or something as my current personal circumstances mean while i have had some amazing (to me) amount of interest from some fabulous sounding ladies in a short space of time - who i currently can't answer directly or talk to to arrange to meet very sadly & ALL of you who have taken time to write to me sound wonderful & I would love to meet any one of you in any scenario,as friends or maybe more but would hate to waste their time.

Also, as much as appreciate interest I rarely get out of Devon these days so much as want to if you are in London, etc & unless you visit area for work we probably won't be able to meet up either being realistic about it.

Here are the facts:
I'd like to think I'm helpful, friendly and outgoing.

A quick bit about my background, I'm university educated, you'd normally find me at my work in education.
I sometimes have some free afternoons in North and East Devon which might suit someone.

Currently I'm married and absolutely not looking to break this, it's far too complicated if this happens no way am I looking to change this situation even if sometimes I think it would be easier to be alone again.

So- absolute discretion and am looking for something very very casual, just a bit of a kiss and cuddle and attention would be good enough
- I love female company and flirting a bit but a discreet friendship over an odd coffee would be nice and I'd be quite happy with this if it's all you want too.

So,my marriage is generally happy and not going to disrupt this for various reasons but being totally honest, she has a lower sex drive and some different interests day to day and I'd like to feel a bit more desired and less routine than I do together.

This is how I look: a little below average height, (5'6") blue eyes, brown to greying cropped hair. kinda average size,
I do watch my weight and I'm in decent shape I think for my age.

I'm all about Blade Runner and James Bond rather than Forrest Gump.
My musical tastes include Soul and The Beatles over RnB.

I absolutely love Northern Soul and love spending the night dancing non-stop. I love motorcycles, classic vehicles and racing.

Ideal Partner:

Probably similar age range as in same boat for relationship time of life but I set the ages as being fairly open as who knows who's looking and what they are looking for?

I like ladies who are funny and I'm attracted to personality and the face first. Figure and shape doesn't matter.

I probably prefer curvy girls first and foremost, (ideally say, think of Nigella or Kirsty Allsop)
I have been out with very slim girls -
as I say I go for personality then face before figure that doesn't matter so much to me but if pushed would say I like to feel warm curves and soft bodies.

My ideal is a brunette or with dark jet black hair with blue or brown eyes,
I adore Latin and Indian ladies especially and on the opposite scale also fiery redheads with blue or green eyes!

Style can be smart and professional looking, sort of sexy librarian type or think Alisha in the Good Wife,smart bob cut,suit,heels, etc. but have a thing for girls a bit punky too so tattoos & piercing I'm fine with though I have neither currently.

Mainly someone just wants a bit of fun and very discreet of course.

Other Interests:

Cars / Motorcycles, Music - Alternative, Music - Rock, Cycling, Shopping, Motor Racing, Dancing, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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