marklondonengland

About Me:

I'm 183cm tall (6ft) and in good shape with blonde hair and blue eyes - clean shaven. I run most days so I am fit. I know that physical attractiveness is not what makes an affair work - we need communication and connection more importantly, but after reading many of the forum discussions I think it is worth saying that I am actually active and have a toned body and I guess that is unusual for a lot of men in their 40s/50s.

I have been to university. I do read regularly and across many different types of book. I enjoy music, art, theatre, and culture, but also history and sport. I do go to watch football regularly, but I also hate team rivalry and fans who abuse other fans just for wearing a different shirt.

I think it is important to be curious and interested in many different things. I read a lot of books, but I go to watch football. I learned piano from nothing during the lockdown. I love old school punk, but I also have flown across the world just to see Philip Glass. Just be interested and open to new experiences.

I'm very friendly and happy to talk on most subjects. I've lived in several different countries, so I have some intelligence you can probe. I'm certainly open to meet a partner of any age and any race - it's the connection and interest in each other that is most exciting rather than any preconceived idea of who is attractive.

Most of us here are married and I'm not looking for a new wife, but I also don't want to just have a series of one-night-stands either. It requires time and effort to find a IE partner that feels good so if we do connect then I don't see why we should not be able to make it last for many years... something ongoing that augments our life rather than taking anything away.

I think our conversation and connection is how we get the most from this. Sex eventually it becomes important - we are all missing some passion in life, but connecting and feeling comfortable with someone is the first step on the way to enjoying this kind of fun together. If you can't talk together and enjoy meeting then the sex isn't going to be good anyway!

I think that for us to make this work we need a sense of humour, a willingness to connect and talk together, and a desire to ask each other what is it that is missing from our lives and brought us here talking to other people - we should be open about wanting to be desired, wanting to be kissed, or just wanting to talk to someone interesting.

Ideal Partner:

To start with, I don't have a specific objective in terms of how you look, your age, your race or ethnicity, or anything else that might usually be used as a filter. I expect a married woman is more likely to connect with me as I am married, but that is not written in stone as there may be some single or divorced women who don't want to start a new serious relationship.

I think a lot of men here talk about NSA. I don't think this really exists, unless you are talking about having a quick one in the car park. I'm not looking for that and I hope you are not either. I don't want to affect my home life or yours, so I am not looking for a new romatic relationship, but I do think that we should be able to create a new friendship that can involve romance, seduction, and passion. It's really about creating a space away from home where we can indulge in desire with a friend before returning back home again - nobody is hurt, but we both have a smile on our faces.

So if we can do this then it has the potential to be long-term... in theory we could go on meeting for years.

I think a lot of what people are missing here is desire. Many women I see here are comfortable and secure at home, but they want someone to kiss them - but at the same time it has to be someone they like and trust. I think this is the space where we can connect. If you are comfortable at home and have no desire to uproot your life, but you do just want to feel desired and you want to see that there is a man who is excited to be talking to you, then let's say hello and talk?

Kissing is amazing, so hopefully you are someone who enjoys kisses.

Meeting in the day or evenings is OK and eventually if we do connect then we could plan nights away.

Other Interests:

Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Cooking, Food and Wine

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