SeeingStars

About Me:

I hate this so going to just make a list! Apologies for lack of effort...

- Mum of 2
- Sociable, but I don't drink much. Big fan of being healthy
- I enjoy working out - gym, swimming, hiking, etc.
- well educated but not working at the moment


Well done if you've made it this far!
Now to test whether you're actually reading this, as I'm pretty sure 95% will lose interest after this...

I'm NOT looking for just an affair, like most people on here. I'm genuinely hopeful I may one day get out of the marriage that I'm in. Happy to share more details once I get to know someone more.
I'm looking to actually fall in love again. And be loved again. I don't just want sex - although obviously sex is pretty important.

This currently feels like the only way to meet anyone else. It's not like I can 'discreetly' join a normal dating site, seeing as I have a lot friends in my area...

If you're in a "committed" relationship (which most men here seem to be) then I can honestly tell you there's no point messaging me. Not that I'm particularly keen on meeting someone who's also cheating...but I'm not sure what choice I have (and it would be super hypocritical of me!) so I'm giving it a go...

I won't be easily or quickly sharing my photos (or not on here, at least). But to give you an idea:
- I'm in pretty good shape
- fairly intelligent
- quite well-travelled (and I like to think fairly worldly-wise)
- I don't currently have a career (I mean, aside from being a mum). I do hope to get my Masters or even Doctorate some day. It hasn't been the priority (or necessary) in this marriage/stage of parenthood.
- It's impossible to call myself good-looking without sounding incredibly vain, but from what I've been told, I'm definitely not bad looking. I personally think I look quite plain, but I occasionally make the effort with my appearance 😉
- I'm very much into emotionally healthy relationships and communication. I don't like to play games. I hate passive aggression
- I've never cheated before. And never thought I would

Ideal Partner:

Most is already above but I'll try and add a few more things...
- someone with a high sex drive
- someone who respects women
- tbh, age isn't quite so important. Although I'm gonna set the cut off point at 55ish.
- someone intelligent enough to hold a conversation about interesting stuff (we can wait and see what 'interesting' actually turns out to be)
- someone who can laugh. Apparently I'm hilarious. You need to be able to laugh at my jokes because I'll probably get sad otherwise.
- Dad-bod isn't the be all and end all. I'm not keen on obesity though, if I'm totally honest. I kind of want someone less-than-perfect looking. I find it a lot more real. And then the sex is 🤌 Unfortunately, the only times I've had sex with a really hench guy, it was like he was performing in a porno. Barely any pleasure whatsoever. It's put me off.
- someone who makes some effort
- someone who likes to build up the tension while out on a date or with friends, and then lets me rip his clothes off as soon as we're home

Other Interests:

Nature, Gym / Aerobics, Travel / Sightseeing

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