Unwoke!

About Me:

Grrrrr... Grrrrr... And more grrrrr!

House taking so much longer to sell than expected! HUGE apologies to anyone knocking at my door!

Quick update! I've nearly sold the house, so I'm very close to being able to offer my undivided attention!

Looking for an atypical retirement! Most go for gardening and slippers. I'm hoping to include a bit more!

I'll be adding to these words over time (here's a few extra while I'm mulling stuff over)!

Whilst I've not yet got the local stuff into a position to enable me to give the site my fullest attention I am at least able to whack a few more words down - as promised. (I'll come back and tidy it up once I've finished adding to it!)

So, a bit more about me.....
Having spent all my working life leaving the house every morning in a collar and tie I'm now revelling in the relaxed, comfortable look. So expect to see casual trousers (shorts when it's warm); trainers, sandals or walking boots if I'm up on the moors; and t/polo shirts. The posh stuff is still in the wardrobe but, if nothing else, I'd have trouble explaining going out in it to 'er indoors!
On the subject of walking boots that's my preferred leisure pursuit. An open moorland, a clifftop path, bright blue skies or lashing rain immaterial. It's not about bagging the miles though, just lapping up the ambience.

Here's a bit more....

I guess above all else it's essential that we get along. That we hit it off. That we can chat freely and easily. I think this bit is pretty important as, with the best will in the world, even if we are lucky enough to find ourselves in an immensely satisfying relationship, we'll probably still end up spending a fair bit of time texting/emailing each other!

I'd like to think I can converse about most things and, like you, will have many opinions. But our 'opinions' don't make us right so we will disagree on things - that's perfectly fine by me as I'd expect it to be so with you too.

That's the sartorial and activities bits out of the way, what about the interesting things - the reason we're all here?
I know I've said that physical appearance is a long way down the list of things that are important but it's not a complete irrelevance. I ticked 'cuddly' as I'm not as lithe and athletic as I was in my youth. There's a bit of a spare tyre for example so, if it's a six-pack you're after, then it won't be me you're looking for! The hair is all still in place but it's short and grey these days. Plumbing wise everything worked last time it was called upon to perform!
Preferences wise I'm as happy on top as underneath although the aging knees makes the latter more comfortable. Oral? Oh yes, most definitely (giving and receiving). Wanna try something new? Yep, I'm up for experimenting too (I'd like to think I'll try most things at least once).

I'm sure there's lots more I can add but I'll leave it there for now.

Ideal Partner:

I've learned from past outings here not to be too prescriptive as something always comes along that's a pleasent surprise!

Married or, if not married, then certainly an appreciation of having to be mindful of the reality of having a partner at home is definitely one attribute I'd look for in a lover.

Physical appearance plays very much a minor role in a woman's attractiveness as far as I'm concerned. 'Sexy' is a state of mind, not a cup size!

So let's expand upon that a bit....
I've done this sort of thing before and shot myself in the foot by things I've 'included' or 'excluded'. So basically pretty much everything I put down here could be blown away with a single conversation! That's not to say I don't have preferences, but it's all about context - and context is unforeseeable (having said that there are one or two things I'd steer clear of: intimate piercings, for one).
I am attracted to someone who has an inate curiosity about the world around us, has a broad range of interests and a love of conversation, a sense of the absurd, the ability to laugh freely, to be able to stroll along a country footpath together in companionable silence, tactile, loves kissing,

As it is unlikely that a woman who worships at The Gym, sports a six pack, and regularly runs half marathons for fun is going to be drawn to a relatively sedantary lardarse I would not usually make approaches in such a situation. Not because I don't find athletic women attractive, but because it's unlikely to be reciprocated. But if you are one, and you aren't put off by the tyre, then get in touch!

So what about the 'married' thing? Simple; if you too are married or similar then we both appreciate each other's situation. Having said that there is one area where you not having a partner at home can be a positive - it could be an alternative to getting a room!

And 'sexy' as a state of mind? Of course it is. It's that twinkle in the eye that says "I want you". It's the 'casual' way two bodies drift towards each other by mutual consent. It's either there or it isn't. Usually obvious over the first cup of coffee!

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Rock, Music - World, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Literature / History, Motor Racing, Travel / Sightseeing, Food and Wine

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