lustfulrefreshing

About Me:

Met a guy over coffee last week. He smiled, flirted. Said, “You look like an artist.” Am I, I wondered, or just a cliche?

He wanted to know what apps I used. Which way did I swipe? “I don’t,” I said. A few minutes later he enquired, “So…you are married, aren't you?” When I nodded, he was curious to discover if I preferred it that way. “It has its advantages,” I confirmed.

Did he appear to agree? Was that the end of his game? His eyes searched for me again and, when he got up to leave, he declared, “Everyone lies online and on a coffee table. So, thanks for being honest.”

He dropped a card on the table. It tells me his name, and that he’s in real estate.

If I contact him, what will I say? Do I play to his artist stereotype? Alternatively, if he found me on here, would he assume the lily was gilded?

Moved, I now contemplate an imagined affair here. In his honour, I might write something like this:

Today, the only guidance I can give you is that I know what I want but I am not sure what to say. Maybe nothing would be wiser. I could defer to the standard language, but those words are broken. What it boils down to is this: I want to have sex, and I would like to do this very soon, in a matter of two days at most. Yes, I do not feel the need to pretend I want to know you for ages then start giving irrelevant time that we can't even make possible. If you feel likewise, please let me know. At first glance, I fit the cheater stereotype. I author a love letter blog. I cry with relief when on screen lovers finally kiss, and I break when they do. Yet, being in marriage for a long time myself, I am not lonely. Nor do I crave coupledom. Indeed

Ideal Partner:

Listen! The best teacher in the bedroom is how you want each other. Nothing loosens up the body or guides its movement like the feelings of the individual involved. You’ve heard someone’s response to a bedroom session described as “lying there like a log of wood,” right? You would be surprised that that same “log of wood” could be FIRE in another setting.

It all boils down to FEELINGS but men would rather not understand these uncomfortable realities however if you are a man who understands what I am trying to say that you are the type I want to send me a message now or what would life be if not to enjoy s*X. I am real, let's take off the masks! Life is to be lived. Not hidden away, but lived! To be seen and to see in a deeply intimate way with a cheating partner - that is bliss! I am not scared to do it (please be specific with me and don't waste my time trying to know me more than what I put out here) and also won't have it any other way. Let's get through our fears together. Let's find a place and meet right away. We can do it.

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Mountaineering, Travel / Sightseeing

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