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Nick2522

44, Bristol

Divorced, Slim body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: Friendship, Short Term Relationship, Long Term Relationship, Romance & Fun, Casual, See how it goes

Mediterranean, 'Recreational' Smoker, Light / Social Drinker

Occupation: Executive
Education: Graduate/Masters Degree
Eye Colour: Brown
Hair Colour: Bald
Religion: Other

Looking for Female between the ages of 21 and 55

Star Sign: Pisces
Last Active: Waiting for Mrs Right

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About Me:

Hi All. I'm Nick, a 44 year old senior executive, with a background in Social Anthropology, a passion for esoteric books, classic jazz, adventurous travel, rock climbing, politics and intellectually stimulating people who enjoy fierce debate and fine wines. Open minded (but not so much as my brain falls out of my head), inquisitive and confident (but not arrogant), I am looking for a connection with someone self-aware enough to know their limitations and a desire to push beyond them into new and unexpected modes of being, experience and enjoyment.

I have been on IE before so appreciate how this works and that everyone is looking for different things, though i also know that good, enjoyable and meaningful connections on here are indeed possible. Sex is hugely important to me (as I am sure it is for most people on here) so to say otherwise would be disingenuous.

I probably am unlikely to 'click' with anyone who doesn't appreciate that the brain is the only erogenous zone worth stimulating and that it is only from there that physical and emotional pleasure really flows. Am well versed and established in the realms of kink and BDSM, only practice SSC and have no time for people undertaking such activities casually, recklessly or who think that the sum total of such activities amount to a collection of toys or fantasies drawn from mainstream books and media. I am a Dom and do no undertake such a role lightly or without full appreciation of the immense responsibility it entails whether with a committed partner or a suitable playmate. I am happy to instruct newcomers to this world but only if they have a genuine interest beyond the aesthetics, toys and outfits. Again, the brain is where it starts and where ends, hopefully via every single nerve ending of the body. I am not seeking multiple partners, just the right one.

That being said, I have been fortunate to actually make a couple of platonic friends on here over the years with whom I have regularly shared meals, a glass of wine, good conversation and a laugh and look forward to do so again with new people.

I am looking to meet people socially, spend time doing all the accepted things like drinks, meals, museums, live music (minus long walks on the beach - unless its the Med or Caribbean) in the hope of meeting someone like-minded willing to explore and find the right balance between kink and vanilla in an elegant, sophisticated and fun way, taking nothing too seriously other than what is serious and nothing too casually other than that which is light and fun, but always together in balance and trust and honesty.

So now you know a little about me, and if you have not run a mile at my pretentious nonsense, or think that I am even slightly more interesting than I am weird, please get in touch. I wont bite (mostly).

Nick

p.s. I get that many have only encountered the concepts of BDSM through either online pornography or the works of E.L James but if you have read anything by De Sade, Mirbeau, Drialys, Sacher-Masoch, Desclos and suchlike we will probably get on quite well, even if only over a glass of wine. They always make for good conversation if nothing else. xxx

p.p.s. Of course i don't only read such authors. Other favourites of mine outside of that topic include Seabald, Borges, Hesse, Banks, Greene, Eco, Barthes, Levi-Strauss, Baudrillard and a host more. Love books!

Ideal Partner:

Kind, adventurous, intelligent, funny, open-minded, strong, with just the right amount of joyous evil and danger. Someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously but undertakes what they do with total seriousness. Eyes like a cat, tongue like a snake, brain like a monkey, body like they own it, and attitude without equal. Someone willing to explore new worlds with someone by their side.

Other Interests:

Arts / Crafts, Astrology / New Age, Museums / Galleries, Nightclubs / Clubs, Music - Blues/Jazz, Politics, Literature / History, Religion, Travel / Sightseeing, Cooking, Food and Wine