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About Me:

So probably best to be upfront about what I’m looking for and not looking for on here. I’m sure you will want to be clear about your expectations too.

I’m married, have been for a long time and have two adult kids. I’m still very happy to be married and want that to continue so discretion from both sides is vitally important to me. My wifes interest in sex has slowly faded over the years to nothing and I have no interest in imposing myself in any way that would make her feel uncomfortable. But I still have a strong sex drive and I wish to enjoy that as and when I can on here. My work arrangements allow me to be available during the week during office hours for meets away from home. I can travel to anywhere in the Midlands area, mainly around Nottinghamshire, Leicestershire, Lincolnshire and South Yorkshire. Happy to meet for coffee and a chat and can organise hotels if and when we might take things further.

I’m looking for something casual and short term but not averse to a longer term understanding. I’m not looking for a committed relationship, I already have that. Would be great to chat and get to know people but any discussion about my home life would be limited and mostly off limits.

If you're interested, I'm university educated, I specialise in IT/communications. In terms of looks I’m tall, grey/brown hair, slim build (with minor beer gut :-)), grey eyes and short beard.

I've got pretty simple tastes, and I find Sci-Fi shows and Vikings agree with me a lot more than Musicals. My tastes are quite broad, but if I had to narrow it down, I'm more of a Rock and Alternative kinda person than Hip Hop.

People generally describe me as funny, helpful and friendly.

If you do want to message me, please could I ask you type Excalibur in the message. It’s a meaningless word but it’ll show you’ve taken the time to read this and are serious about getting to know me further. I do hope you drop me a note, I’d be delighted to get to know you more, both on a general level and maybe more intimately in the future. If you want some real time messaging, I’ll usually be online after 10 each evening for an hour or two.

Ideal Partner:

My ideal is someone with similar views on what they want from this site in what I’ve written above. Discretion is paramount for me. Someone who also wants to test the water in chatting and then maybe meeting to see if there’s some spark. There’s a sort of buzz to the secret nature of this, so it’s that matching mindset I’m seeking rather than any particular physical attributes.

Other Interests:

Cars / Motorcycles, Music - Alternative, Music - Rock, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Motor Racing, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema

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