Complicitous

About Me:

How to describe oneself on a site like this? I’ll start with the auto generated words kindly offered by IE.. I’m outgoing, sociable and kind. Average height and have an athletic body shape.

A little detail about my situation.. I am separated but we are still co-habiting for the kids. Pls don’t misread this as I’m looking for a new husband because I am certainly not looking to break up the very happy, amicable family unit I have. I’m looking for something to run alongside, not replace it.

I still require all the discretion and usual boundaries of an affair to preserve my family unit. However, obviously I miss having a physical relationship and the emotional connection that comes with a sexual/romantic relationship.

Please bear the above in mind when considering messaging me!

I’m probably best suited to someone in a similar situation as mine (I know that’s a long shot on here!) or someone who in a sufficiently detached and platonic relationship with their wife that they have they capacity for a physical and emotional relationship that runs alongside their marriage without interfering with it. I’m probably not suited to anyone who is just after NSA sex or people who are madly in love with their wife and therefore get riddled with guilt as they try and reconcile why they needed an affair in the first place!

I realise that may all sound a bit serious but what I’m after is something fun, sexy, exciting and mutually uplifting but with a bit of depth and understanding :)

Ideal Partner:

Is there such thing as an ideal partner? Well, if pushed… a slim/athletic build, clean shaven chap who’s chatty, open and fun to be around.
Someone who loves the outdoors, enjoys a wide range of interests and conversations, and doesn’t take life too seriously.
I like to think I’m adventurous and open minded.. so someone with that side too, would be ideal… but reciprocal rather than anything too one sided :)

Sadly, I’m really not a fan of beards!

Daytimes work best for me.. evenings and weekends are more tricky, although not completely impossible.

Update: unfortunately, I rarely make it into London so if you are solely London based, it might be difficult. Unless you are happy to do all the travelling, which seems a little unfair!

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Hiking / Camping, Literature / History, Athletics

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